Dear Goonie,
You can be as child as you like to be. In some ways we are all children. And 16 indeed is a tender age, but indeed just think how wonderful is to work at being so young and wise.
I don't think Adrian is confusing at all. Adrian simply keeps up with the rapid change. In the spirit world there is no absolute truth. Is like in science. 20n years ago they told you hydrogenated fats are good for you (margarine) and today they tell you they are poison clogging your arteries.
See everything exists as a quantum of possibility.
Imagine the spirit world as a huge library of Video CDs and in all of them there is a movie about Goonie's life. In one video he is as you know him, in another one he was born in some other place and is doing something different - imagine all possible and impossible life scenarios.
These are the quantum possibilities.
Now imagine you as a spirit pull out one of the videos and pop it for view - bang - and there is your life as you know it in 3D and time etc.. - this is called "wave collapse". This is what you do every second of your awake life with your thoughts (both of those you are aware and also those you are not)
Now imagine things even more weird - every time you, I and everybody else are doing this wave collapse thing (popping up a video into reality)
Then after that it gets more and more confusing as each video fits another and not only but also when it is changed.
So... anyway as a mother of a 17 year old I understand the 'child' tender state. At the same time I highly encourage all my 3 girls to grow up in wisdom, and when something is not there anymore to find something else to keep them going.
I feel for you I honestly do... Adrian is like a father figure isn't it??
