What to do with life?

[juliainkc]

Beloved Jasmeen,

Talker always shares wonderfully and I do notice that you are drawn to his expressions in a wonderfully loving way.

May I play the 'feminine' voice here so you have both and can blend them together and find your own voice in this mix?

 ANd I have some more questions:

If a student loves, or cares a lot about some teacher that they had last year and wanted to take that teacher's other class, but didn't because they thought the teacher would get attached to them as well as they would. But thinking of being with that teacher makes that student very very very happy! So is it good to stay away from that teacher to reduce attachment? or should the student go up to the teacher and tell him what they truly feel and want?

But it seems crazy! But knowing that Life is meant to be Crazy--full of surprises and unique experiences, should the student take the teachers class? But in the end the  student will feel really depressed due to separation from that teacher. So what to do? Attachment can be overcome but is not easy.

What would You guys do if you were in the students position?

What would You think if You were the teacher? The teacher also likes the student very much and often told them that "I wish I had more like YOu."

They also called them "cute" and "the sweetest" person "on this planet."
 

I had that experience too and the feelings were mutual. Now, at 17, we can choose to feel our feminine prowess and are really wanting to let it out! We are aware of our bodies being in fine and fit condition (in this area for some of us and, for others they are not here yet in this area).

We are truly entering our knowledge of Being Woman Child. So, knowing now what I know having been there, and no, didn't go through with it. I wish to share with you my Heart Thoughts in retrospection. Take what speaks to you and leave the rest.

Whom does this teacher remind you of in ways. Not necessarily in looks but in the 'feeling'? Ask this to your Inner ~ Higher Self in believing. How? By the 'way' you ask this. Truth. Ask or Invite in the way of already having your answer ...(which ask ~ invite, means the same thing to me) 'Thank you for showing me where this is really coming from. (The root of the desire).

Now, don't get yourself tangled up in this, as in trying to figure out what the answer will be.  Just ask yourself this and go on your way into your day. Develops your trusting yourself in motion. Jot down what shows up.

Jasmeen, Oh yes, it's showing up I promise. You just have to be more aware, alert to the clues. Like a game of hidden objects. As you relax into trusting your knowing Guidance, you will see the reason easier, you will see more by relaxing then straining your 'eyes', vision expands into 'peripheral seeing vision'.

You are warm to this teacher's building you up in your confidence. What teachers do naturally. Or Guides. This teacher touches your heart and this is developing your eye for the qualities you desire in a loving relationship of Unconditional Love. You do feel this don't you? Completely accepted by another whom is mature and sees your 'Beauty' you in your Authentic Beauty. This is setting the stage of creating that relationship.

Seems off yet I sense in flow ~ the Warm, Electrical Vibration of touching your Inner Heart's Bell. I do not ask why.

Let this rest on the back burner, if it is so, it will ding when its ready to be eaten.

Much much Love for you Jasmeen, you are experiencing a very necessary part of the evolving in Love process.

You already know what to do my Beloved younger Sister. For your and Teacher's Highest Good that leads all to their Highest Vibration ~ Potential (Portal) ~

In the Spirit of Love, Wisdom and Power,
 
Julia



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[Talker]

Ah, the sheer beauty, of that, which takes place here within the forum,  
brings forth loving energy feelings beyond compare.

The smoothing of those rough edges, expressed by the male specie.
So delicately completed, and wisely applied, by that delightful female specie.

Many such energies were shared in the 'Feminine / Masculine thread,
yet bears pointing out again, on how beautiful it all harmoniously comes together .  

Thank you ladies, one and all, for gracing this place called earth,
and, all the males within it.
Be Well


http://www.ourultimatereality.com/forums/femininitymasculinitysexual-energy-related-t780.0.html

[Kadensnga]

Indeed Talker...the smoothing out of the male perspective... by the female. I join you in being thankful for this wonderful species. YOU however, are smooth even though you are a male... hope I get there one day. Your words are silky smooth and communicate warm love in all ways. Never opinionated, always loving , wise, objective, and full of beauty. I admire you my friend.

[juliainkc]

Dear Talker,

Thank you always for your loving, uplifting and supportive thoughts. Namaste.

And John, thank you for sharing the encouragement and enpowerment you do and for being so loving with Talker and all of us here. Namaste.

In Loves Spirit,

Julia

[Talker]

Indeed Talker...the smoothing out of the male perspective... by the female. I join you in being thankful for this wonderful species. YOU however, are smooth even though you are a male... hope I get there one day. Your words are silky smooth and communicate warm love in all ways. Never opinionated, always loving , wise, objective, and full of beauty. I admire you my friend.

Wouldst that emanation
     gleam outward
          still,
   were it not for that
  seen, inhaled and felt
            here.

        Thy flow,
             kind Sir ,
                    proceeds
                            neck and neck
                                     from
                                          the same well.
And to the kind words expressed,Julia, can only say 'Thank You'.

[soulconsole]

okay, so i guess i should stay away from the teacher. Lol! I knew U guys wud know it was me!!! lolll   
heehee! Love U aLL!

To tell U all the truth: I never wanted to have a romantic relation with anyone- i think so. with this teacher it is very very different:
like at the beginning of the junior year i was not even into this kind of stuff. It happened later. Not on my part but the other person's.
Well, I can't say that. Even i chose to experience the incidents- from what i have read.

I really really appreciat the teacher being in my life, and this summer all i thought about and dreamt about was that person. Even now that
school has started i think about him all the time. I don't like any of my classes in particular, but go to school in the hope of
seeing that person. My whole day is made by seeing that person.

I know for sure that this is wrong. One should be happy and joyous from within, without depending on someone else. I am thankful that
i know this. At least i can try to forget that person. But the thing is: I just want to be their Best Friend. I have no idea why- or maybe i do: cause being with them -- maybe i have just conjured up this idea with my imagined thoughts, feelings--- crazy mind!
being around them makes me happy.
hmm.. now that i contemplate, most of it is thought up by me. I mean i had nothing else to do over the summer and the nice comments I got really caught my attention and it was for the first time I felt appreciated. No one ever said the things that the person said. It seemed clear that the person appreciated me b/c of seeing the way they acted towards me.
I guess i will get over it. like life always does and ppl always do.
 
Thank U all for caring.
Love U ALL ~

[juliainkc]

Beloved Jasmeen,

With tender and loving intentions I am wrapping my arms around you and embracing you in a sisterly hug.

I read through this thread and did not see anywhere a direct statement of any of us saying to you, do this or don't do that. These situations we all face are to be acted upon based on one's freewill to decide what the Highest outcome would be for all involved. And only you can decide for yourself what that is by asking for Divine assistance.

All we are saying is choose wisely, choose well. We have the ability to bring harm to ourself and another when we ignore what our 'conscience' is saying, our Intuits. And in this position, we go ahead and do it our way anyway because, we want what we want and that's that! We are overcome by our tempatation. Been there and done this many, many times.

And yes, while there is no such thing as 'wrong' in defining behaviour for another, we are not made up of all the influences in another, just ours, we do in moments go against our Inner Knowing. That quiet toning bell ringing in the background. And we must be willing to own the responsibility of our deeds. The ownership of our Self.

This is a part of the life experience process. How else will you evolve in your decision making process. I speak in human terms here. We learn from our 'mis' -steps or skipped (not listening) steps. We take shortcuts and find ourself in strange territories. It's all life, we find our way and get back on path and most do not repeat the behaviour. Most.

I am happy that this teacher has gifted you with a deeper sense of who you are. Seeing you before you really see yourself. Or rather, validating in you what you may have 'forgotten' about being true of yourself. This deepens your Love for others and evolves your compassion for others you will meet whom will remind you someday of yourself at this point in your life and you will pass on to them the same Love gift this teacher gave to you.

And happy and joyous is the key to knowing we are on track. We have peace with our choice. You are touching upon your Inner Wisdom and this will only continue as you pay attention to IT.

Wow. I really relate to your sharing of your feelings here. I do remember being in this place. The not wanting a romantic relation with anyone, was presented to you as a new possibility even though it may not show up in this particular relationship, the feeling will sound again in another and you will recognize it when it happens. You are now open to the possibility in your life of having this wonderful experience, it will happen Jasmeen.

Your beauty is evident in your Loving nature you share here with all of us and I have no doubt in your immediate environment.

I am so delighted by you Jasmeen, you have such Wise ways already and being 17, well, that alone speaks for you.
InJoy this day and your life in each moment. You are Divinely Blessed Jasmeen. Be open to the miracles all around you today is my Heart's prayer.

In Love, Wisdom, and Power,

Julia

[soulconsole]

Well, Julia sis, U have made me realize big time!
This is life and since we have free will, we shud use it. After all our life is our own unique experience.
I know it seems weird to be attracted to a teacher-to some (but we all are Open minded here so it's okay).
To tell U ALL the truth, the teacher is like 11 years older than me-- I have always admired guys in this age range--like in their late 20's.
Whether it be tv, usually it was the tv shows, but Junior year it was real life. There was also this teacher in History class, he was new (also in age range 20's) and he came in first day, but i didn't really care, later i got/ felt attracted to him also. I think he did too, cuz once in the hallway I said "hi" to him but he totally looked the other way ignored me. lol It cud be he hated me ---lol

I felt soooo bad, that after that day i started to ignore him also.But he looked at me and acted like he wanted to ask me something-- I know this was wrong, now school has started again but i haven't seen that guy. Well, now i just say "God bless him."  and "thank U for the experience." 
The teacher who called me his good student ( who i think is an Angel , He cud be my Spirit Guide!!) and appreciated me is still in the school and I have seen him and he offered me a hug  lollz but anyhow I cud be sooooooooo wrong in thinking he likes me like me, but dude! He acted like he really did, and kind of still does. Like i said i wanna be his best friend or just friend b/c of some sort of attraction---  U guys know how before coming to this world, before incarnating, we choose to be with certain ppl, well what if he is one of them?
I guess i should pay close attention to my inner self/ voice when i am around him. I will keep U all posted 

 lol!! Wat is this place? My diary/journal? lolll   

Love U aLL and deeply am thankfull for the advice and Unconditional Love. 

[Kadensnga]

It is not immoral or uncommon for an older man to be attracted to a younger woman, nor the other way around... it's even kinda beautiful, however, it is illegal and people do suffer when wisdom isnt used... so hey, nothing weird about a teacher being attracted to a student (neccessarily... ), but wait until it is legal, or else there is a good chance that you can bring one another harm.

[soulconsole]

heehee! Yeah, even he said to me "do U have any [OLDER] sisters or cousin?"

 lol and he told me to tell my parents "to have had me earlier".  -hinting that he "liked" me.

crazy no? but really sweet!!!!!! one more year for me? lolzzz Just kidding.

I think am making all this up--well, it is in my hands to make or break this relation. I figure...

  lol
LoVe to ALL ~

[Kadensnga]

If you look to him as wise... and that is the attraction point, then this behavior of his should shatter that image for you, because it is foolish.

Namaste Young Friend.

[soulconsole]

Well, that is the thing. He does not act foolish. I saw him today and have since school started and he is the sweetest, most kindest person i have ever met! He doesn't take advantage of me but accepts the "idea" that we cannot be together.
I asked if I could come to his class when am not doing anything in another, and he said "my door is always open for you."
To me it sounded so kind hearted and loving, not in a wrong way, but Universal, Unconditional love like we share on this site. 
I pay attention to my stomach (the naval Chakra) to feel if a situation is wrong; it pains when something bad is about to happen. I have tested this  I guess I am listening to my inner voice.
I am really grateful that he is definitely wise. Much much better than the guys (including family members) who are in my life and have been in my life.
I am figuring that the source, or reason that I am attracted to this person is because of the kindness and love.
I know I should not be attached, for he is not- he seems not to be attached... or as obsessed as me.


Love to ALL because it is the essence !

[juliainkc]

I know, I know, I am being annoying here. Yet I cannot suppress the Love I feel here.

John, you are so wonderful to express a Mature Masculine view. Truth. Namaste` John.

And Jasmeen, you are so wise my Beloved Sister. See? You know. Really. It will bless you and multiply.

Loving you All in Loves Light, Seeing you All in Loves Eyes,

Julia

[soulconsole]

Love is just like U and Ur posts Julia sis! 

[Kadensnga]

Indeed, Julia speaks the language of God. Agreed my friend.