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[Larry]

Where could the world be, if there were no fem. aggravation? Some just love to bloviate. As exampled above. I am Larry

[Kadensnga]

It would be all male energy... and that would be no fun. I marvel at these women and their creative way of expressing and relating to one anohter... they are children playing in the garden, skipping around holding hands, under the watchful and adoring eye of their father. No harm will come to them.

We must be like the father, and adore the children also.

They are only another part of you and i being expressed in another adventurous way.

By what authority do I speak?

Who cares right?

I just AM.

[Mina-Laura]

Dear John,


Your chivalry noted and appreciated. Indeed what would this world be without damsels in distress and Knights coming to the rescue.

(Shrek comes to mind now ...lol... )


sweet dreamz lovely players

[Kadensnga]

Thank you Laura for your kind acknowledgement,

To bloviate means "to speak pompously and excessively" or "to expound ridiculously"...

Yes I would say that describes me at least... and I 'love' bloviating... excessively, ridiculously (especially), and, even pompously at times is amusing...

So, yes,  I agree that Larry is correct, "some just love to Bloviate", I can say this firsthand... bloviating is fun.

Some should try that!

[juliainkc]

 

Nice exchange Kadensnga and Laura! Truly.

Loved this;

To bloviate means "to speak pompously and excessively" or "to expound ridiculously"...

Yes I would say that describes me at least... and I 'love' bloviating... excessively, ridiculously (especially), and, even pompously at times is amusing...

So, yes,  I agree that Larry is correct, "some just love to Bloviate", I can say this firsthand... bloviating is fun.

Some should try that!

Being this makes all the difference than merely observing this in another. Truth.

JuliaBEING deeply breathing and deep deep sighing out loud. How does one define this? Hmm... makes all the difference in the world.

Be the leaf, the wind, ONEBEING Experiencing. Heartfull overflowing Logos expressing, not getting entangled in the 'trying' to figure out what the heck does that mean? Feel IT BE IT.

Namaste`

Within the Eyes of Love,

Julia

[Kadensnga]

Interesting how some, once they have been hurt or rejected... allow, or entertain the idea that they are rejected... to the point where they "become" the essence of rejection... and they seek to confirm to themselves that it is true, through patterning...

Some push us hard to see how far they can go before we confirm their truth with them. Not seeing themselves as God, as the universe says "your wish is my command".

It is sad... but it is all done deliberately from a semi conscious place... they seek to attract confirmation of their truth of rejection for some reason...

It hurts, when you finally have to look and say "You are right... I cant get anything but rejection from you..."

Then the inevitable begins to happen, un-necessarily.

Namaste to all.

Kadensnga.

[juliainkc]

I LOVE FLOW ~

Kadensnga ~

Tonight I was able to be Divinely led to the door of one in 'transition'. He in one moment sat up and leaned full body into my place and asked, ...

'Tell me Julia, when you had your GOD Experience? Did you hear a a man or a woman's Voice?' TRUTH, this is what his question was to me this evening, having never heard of my GOD EXPERIENCE before. Tonight was his first hearing...

and I looked him in the EYES as I AM prone to do, and I smiled at him, and said neither, IT is non gendered, hard to 'describe'. His response

YES!! THANK YOU!!! I have such a hard time expressing what IT IS that I heard. THE VOICE ... IT sounded neither male nor female, hard to describe. His EYES were LIT UP!! 
 
Ha Ha!! And I am so not 'making this up' as ones tend to believe. This really happened and I AM always Divinely Led ...

We have no 'need' to prove ourself to anyother. All that is Asked or Invited is TO BE or NOT TO BE.

NOT TO BE is pompous posturing. Faking IT. Too MUCH WORK. I AM Resting ~

In the OCEAN and FLOATING, NON Resistance,

Loves eyes Lit Up!!

JuliaBeing

[Kadensnga]

Beloved Julia,

I of all people believe you whole heartedly and share your excitement... you are so excited that you cant even sleep! lol I guess I am empathing you, because neither can I.

YOU are manifesting YOU... at hyperspeed, and the power of your awareness of all of this even fuels it more... HOLD THE VIBE!!!!!!!!! You are multiplying in your experience... You are in quantum leap mode.

You are divine gone to seed.

Wow. I will hold this vibe with you and be excited to see where the universe goes... this is bound to be interesting. You seem to be on the brink of something.

My friend it is ones like you who play out life like a work of William Shakespear, artfully and gracefully... dramatically.

WOW> Dont you love all the theatrics?

Isnt it fun playing this way?

I say this because, it appears that the universe is also playing with you, dreaming your dream of you with you... playing characters... yes, it likes your play!

So do I.

Your biggest Fan,
Kadensnga

[Kadensnga]

~ Sigh

[Mina-Laura]

Hey John

How is my beloved Knight in shining armor doing today? I have to apologise as I don't exactly read all of the Forum updates ..however some are just to hard to miss.

...sigh.. Larry here must be really hurting and nothing would make him change his mind (about sharing some of that hurt with us) - also from past experience nothing that we try to share with him, console him advice him, even sending love seems to get through that thick wall, so the best thing is to let him in God's grace.

What is really sad is that he doesn't realise that he is only hurting himself. He doesn't want to understand that every obnoxious thing expressed is first experienced by him (his subconscious) and in turn it comes expressed in the outer reality in the form of misfortunes, diseases and so on...

However I am sure one day this shall happen. A book shall fall into his hands and as he starts reading tears shall stream down his face and like in a miracle he shall be able to see himself as he is and as his potential is.

Larry one day you shall tire living in darkness, one day you shall open your eyes. When? that is your choice.

Namaste John and Larry

[Kadensnga]

Thank you beloved Laura...

[Skyalmian]

He doesn't want to understand that every obnoxious thing expressed is first experienced by him (his subconscious) and in turn it comes expressed in the outer reality in the form of misfortunes, diseases and so on...

Was it you who posted an article about how what one thinks / does (to others) is always acted upon the mind as happening to it? I don't know where to begin to find it, since there are so many gems on this forum, so, if you still have that article or link, can I have it? /going to print it out.

[Kadensnga]

Dear Laura,

You have been endeared to my heart over the last couple of days especially, so I wanted to give you a flower...however, I couldnt figure out how to insert it. lol

And so for you, here is a live performance by one of my favorite vocalists, the lead singer of train... without all the props, this is just pure dry microphone...TALENT.

Anyway, great love to you, and your loving , and very feminine support of the male ego in moments when it is needed... You have no quarrels on this subject of understanding the difference, and when it is truly a blessing to recieve that for a man, you are not too prideful to be loving... that is so nice to see and be the recipient of...and I for one have certainly appreciated it.

Also the other "real" women here in this forum, who aren't afraid to acknowledge men... and understanding the wonderful contrast and how beautiful that is, but especially for Laura in this moment.

You are wonderful. So here's a live "Bad ASS" performance by a true artist for you, a true authentic one like yourself, who is ALL authentic woman, in the most wonderful sense, without compromising strength nor femininity... yes you are all that and a bag of chips. Sorry, the flower was really nice too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bO1YPFCtI3M&feature=related

[Mina-Laura]

Dear Sky,

Was it you who posted an article about how what one thinks / does (to others) is always acted upon the mind as happening to it? I don't know where to begin to find it, since there are so many gems on this forum, so, if you still have that article or link, can I have it? /going to print it out.

Indeed I posted this clip:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZT9EXfwHS8

The first part is indeed very relevant.
Is important especially because recent research show that our minds are very much like recording devices: everything we hear, see, experience, say etc.. gets recorded in our subconscious. That computer hard drive so to speak is one very powerful device.

Therefore everything that we think, say, it is US who first experience it.
I.e. we call someone 'stupid' it is our subconscious that hears 'you are stupid' ..you call someone wonderful it is our subconscious that first experience the wonderfulness of the sound..feeling etc.

So you see on how out of ignorance and out of getting carried on with holding grudges so many suffer - so to speak at the work of their own hands. 
A very good book detailing how all this works was written almost 100 years ago by Emmet Fox and is entitled "The Sermon on the Mount".

Namaste Sky

[Mina-Laura]

Thank you John

Also the other "real" women here in this forum, who aren't afraid to acknowledge men... and understanding the wonderful contrast and how beautiful that is,

Sigh...


That would be the day when man would understand that he catches more things with a spoonful of honey rather than with a spiteful blow.


Thank you for the "Superstition" song ... I used to inherit a lot of that from my culture I left behind. Now I am changing that into the opposite polarity. And I believe the method works with about everything.

The most important stage is the 1st one: STOP (and recognize the trend you are engaged in)
This is by far the most difficult at least at first. With time it becomes second nature.

I.e. whenever reactive thinking comes over us we need to stop! - this takes 80% energy..force..power of will. I suppose in men is a bit more difficult as they experience that 'blinding' effect which is just overwhelming of the brain with testosterone (however it happens equally in women as both genders have male/female aspects)

2nd stage requires identify the trend and seek its origin - most every time is some sort of fear inherited from childhood that in time the person learned to manipulate it in order to survive

next ..once the recognition occurred the higher self becomes engaged as we also have no choice but to admit that not the others are our enemies but only our misplaced reactions.

Final stage involves hooking onto a good feeling and borrowing its effects into the situation at hand.

I.e. you are on the road and someone cuts you off and provokes an instant reactive rage. Stop, assess that continuing in the negative reactive trend will not help you, will not teach anyone a lesson, the person might be out of town not familiar with surroundings, or in some sort of trouble, you might even get in trouble..etc... then remember that perhaps at times you were being inattentive and caused troubles for others in your driving ... then for sure you must remember a polite person who gave you the way ... now you recognise that behaving like the good person makes at least 2 good persons on the road now where before there could potentially been 2 reactive angry drivers. And like anything good multiplies exponentially. Sooner than you might think you shall have a whole road system with happy and polite drivers, who remember that is most important to get to the destination and not if they made it 2 minutes earlier.

lol... i realised I got carried on and this does not apply to you .. however is a good example on how to change something negative into its positive counterpart.

Namaste