Thank you Louis,
This read comes right out of the 'stand-up comedians' - for some reason makes me laugh hysterically .. Ha ha ha ah -god one

in a sad kind of way.
In psychology is called "the tribe" mentality. Is the effect of a society finding a 'comfortable' spot/ way of functioning and staying in there. The 'tribe' evolves nevertheless however there are always individuals that like to evolve faster - so they have no choice but to abandon the tribe. Make no mistake is not easy but I can tell you from personal experience is worth it!!
I suppose this is why Adrian is advicing people in leaving.
(one day you might consider leaving your Granny)
love to you lil bro