Relationships and Spirituality

[Mina-Laura]

Dear Leila

The next 2 1/2 years are all about relationships, due to positions of planets (Saturn in Libra). So, Libras are the stars, and also relationships.

It's all about open communication, love, passion, healing, intimacy. Looks like a portal to bliss is opening, if we open too...

The Pisces is me, the Libra - my Friends.

I love you,

Leila 

....and I was thinking that this whole life is about relationships... open communication, love, passion, healing, intimacy..and opening magical portals ...

[juliainkc]

Hi Dear Laura,

I am slooow on responding due to being knocked offline yesterday! I know! Halloween is the door swinging open to ... 

the Holidays! Lol!

Elijah said he thought I would look good as a flower. I laughed and asked which one? He (ever the charmer Laura) said, why a Rose of course ... 

My humor is like thorns and all? Ha ha ha! Couldn't pass that one up. He is one to look upon the bloom.

Alright, just have to share this with you. I was driving with him alone the other day and he pipes up in the back seat, 'Amma? Do you know what my biggest dream is?!?  'To live in a huge haunted house!'

Why do you want to live in a haunted house Elijah?

'Because then I can scare people!!' A Duh Amma moment!! Lol! Children are a wonder.


Yes, I am really losing track of time too and there are ones whom would testify to this about me ~

Radiating Love your way,

Julia

[Talker]

Dear Leila

The next 2 1/2 years are all about relationships, due to positions of planets (Saturn in Libra). So, Libras are the stars, and also relationships.

It's all about open communication, love, passion, healing, intimacy. Looks like a portal to bliss is opening, if we open too...

The Pisces is me, the Libra - my Friends.

I love you,

Leila  

....and I was thinking that this whole life is about relationships... open communication, love, passion, healing, intimacy..and opening magical portals ...

Sheesh,
Enough is enough, why concern where the stars and planets are,
when the 'relationships... open communication, love, passion, healing, intimacy..and opening magical portals ... ' moods arrive!
All of those are magical and wonderful when being experienced and indulged in.    
So 'goodbye to wars and my dad can beat your dad stuff'.      
Be Well

[juliainkc]

I InJoyed this today as I thought it was a wonderful way of expressing moving through the process from head to Heart ~

May you be blessed in your knowing,

Julia


The ACIM Mentor Newsletter
by Liz Cronkhite

 October 23, 2009


A Somewhat Healthy Ego Required

 
 It's ironic, but true, that you must have a somewhat healthy personal mind to be able to let it go. Think about it: If all that you know of yourself is a personal self, then your feeling worthy of God's Love must initially come to you in that identification. The personal mind is inherently unstable and insecure and can never be truly 'healthy', but if it is all that you know, then, at first, it is only through the personal self that you can learn about yourself.

When your self-esteem in your identification with a personal self rises to a point where you can let the Holy Spirit into your awareness and begin to trust It, then you are ready to begin to let go of the personal self.

Remember, you are Christ, but you have been identifying with a personal self. You cannot be without an identity; if you are one, then you are not the other. Everyone hears the Holy Spirit, but you have to learn to single It out of the personal mind's cacophony of voices in your mind. You are not going to do this, much less accept that the Holy Spirit is in you, if in your personal identity you feel so unworthy of God that to hear God would terrify you. You will end up punishing yourself to justify hearing the Holy Spirit, or to mitigate the punishment that you feel you deserve from God for hearing God in your unworthy state.

 Most students who come to A Course in Miracles have already done a lot of personal work, through personal-growth programs; traditional psychotherapy; kinder, gentler forms of religion, etc. All of that was necessary to prepare them for God's Unconditional Love. Some students, after starting the Course, still have some personal work to do to accept God's Love.

The tremendous fear that they experience during the initial Loving experiences that they have practicing the Course reveals how unprepared they are for God's Love. Don't make any mistake: The personal mind will always tell you that you are unworthy of God. It will always be insecure and defensive. But, after you have reached a point in your personal self-esteem where you can let the Holy Spirit into your awareness, you have an Identity to replace the personal self, and you can let it go.

[zensunni7]

Yes Laura -
 The sense of time is like a walking in water feeling - as you move through it, it just waves out in front of me and ripples into the horizon

[juliainkc]

Hello All ~ 

I found this to be a truly wonderful article that expresses so well the processing we go through in our Soul's Journey. So, Tony if you are still reading, just offering something that agrees with my Vibe on your asking to hear more of ascending in Love and the Soul's Journey.

It is from the newsletter, 'Take Me to the Truth.'

Take what speaks to you and leave the rest,

Be Blessed and InJoy,

Julia


How Do I "live" A Course in Miracles?

By Sheryl Valentine


A Course in Miracles informs us that the ego likes to grab hold of scripture and distort it for its purposes of condemnation, separation and fear. Well it comes as no surprise that this is also done with the teachings of the Course.
A Course in Miracles is not about teaching us how to love, more profoundly, it teaches us why we don't. Each one of us have an ego alive and well within, and it will not be subjugated with spiritual admonitions.

When attempting to live our chosen spiritual path, we may be accused either by ourselves or someone else, of not living our spirituality when we behave in a way other than what is deemed as "loving".
 
Unfortunately, what it means to love is something the ego has greatly distorted for it's own purposes. The problem with evaluating behavior as a sign of one's spiritual maturity is that one can behave "lovingly" in public, or write nice emails, and nevertheless, harbor venom in their mind.
 
On the other hand, if someone is seen behaving in away deemed as "unloving", unbeknownst to the casual observer, he or she may have made giant strides in that area. Obviously, when our mind is aligned with Love it will be reflected in our behavior, but let's face it, we all have moments when choosing Love is difficult.
 
I had a discussion with a friend about what it means to "live" A Course in Miracles. She said, "When I am angry or judgmental, I know that I'm not living the Course." This is not true, but many of us have felt this way. We then move into using spiritual principles to beat up on ourselves, and that is not what they're for.

I said to my friend, "If you are angry, and then blame those feelings on a person, place or thing, then, in that moment, you aren't living the Course because you're placing the cause of your distress as being "out there". But if you become aware that you're angry, and then recognize that you're viewing the person or situation through the lens of fear and separation (ego), then you are living the Course."
 
One of the things I really love about A Course in Miracles is that it doesn't impose "should" and "shouldn't" on us. Instead, it merely points out what we do, why we do it, and then offers another choice. It's not about acting a certain way. It's not that we're not supposed to feel anger, fear, sadness or judgment; rather, and again more profoundly, it's that we're not to blame those feelings on causes outside of our own mind. But please don't fall into blaming yourself, for that is the same mistake.
 
A friend once said to me, "I don't like coming to your lectures because they are always about me! How come there's never anything wrong with the other person?" We laughed. She was going through a difficult divorce at the time, so I could see her point.

"Oh My God, It's Me!" is not about blaming yourself, it's about taking a look at yourself; but this doesn't mean that "they" aren't doing anything. I am not responsible for another person's behavior, I am only responsible for my reactions to their behavior.

We react to other people based not on reality, but on our perception of reality. Most of the time, people who upset us are simply marching to the beat of their own drum, yet we perceive their behavior as being specifically designed to make us nuts. A big part of spiritual practice is learning to let go of our expectations of what others should be for us, and asking Holy Spirit (the great transformer of perception) for a higher interpretation. As we allow this Inner Presence to return our mind to Love, then Love will extend through us.
 
Ultimately, we are taught to bring awareness to the ego, without judging it.  Admittedly, this takes (at least for most of us), quite a few years to master! This is one of the reasons I am so glad that I've stuck with the practice of A Course in Miracles for going on two decades! It is a gold mine -- a continual fount of wisdom and riches taking me deeper into an awareness of the Truth of Who I Am.
 
The purpose of a spiritual path is to lead us to healing, not further self-condemnation. A passage in the Course that really speaks to me is: It's not that you're to have no impure thoughts, just none that you would keep, give them to Me because I am the purifier.

For years I tried to be more patient, loving, kind, peaceful... it never worked! Finally, I realized that I really cannot do it by myself, I must let my thoughts and feelings go to Holy Spirit. This does work:
 
Holy Spirit, Help me see this person or situation
with your vision of Love, instead of with my eyes
of judgment and fear.

Thank you.

So that's the deal. It's not that we're expected to be perfect human beings, in fact, we can't be unless we return our awareness to the Truth of our spiritual perfection. It is our Inner Spirit that is the light which shines away the darkness. Healing is restoration.

The purpose of any spiritual path is to restore to my awareness that I Am indeed a child of God, and one in whom God is well pleased.


Footnote: Sheryl Valentine is the author of "Oh My God. It's Me!"

[juliainkc]

Loving Greetings of the day Everyone~

I've been musing along with others in this idea that our language is going through a shifting, a Refining process. I'm all for it and love being a part of the process.

If you haven't had the opportunity yet, I highly InCourage you to view the video by Jeff Brown on SoulShaping that our Beloved Laura posted in the What to do with life thread. He wonderfully expressed the going through the process of the Soul's Journey in his Unique way. I vibed with it. Thank you again Laura.

I am going to post something here that has the possibillity of 'conjuring' up a wide range of emotions. It is a shorter article and I felt deeply that I was to share this in Light of the sharing about our abilities that would be defined as paranormal or supernatural.

Irregardless of who is doing the sharing or what background it is being shared from as in ACIM, Kabbalah, etc... look beyond the labels and pay more attention to what is rising inside of you as you read anything. Again, before reading, Invite Divine Wisdom and Discernment to guide you in harvesting what speaks to you and leave the rest. Take the gold.

For myself, I have found that when I have become uncomfortble or downright upset at something I read or someone says, it isn't about 'them', it is about a belief I have that is being brought into the Light for viewing the reasons of these darker feelings and emotions. It's a gift in disguise, an opportunity to 'question' my current beliefs and in the observing without judging myself or another, I may find that it isn't what I deeply know after all. I am tuning in more with the Voice of my Authentic being and not listening to the first one that pops up and usually has an argument as to why what I currently believe is right.

'Truth fears no questions.' ~ Unknown

So ~ here it is ~ stirring the waters of our current beliefs. It will be interesting to see how we 'feel' about this after awhile. Maybe the rising emotions are the pebble being dropped in the center of our Being.

To our Evolving Powerful Being,

Shared with Loving Intentions,

Julia


The ACIM Mentor Newsletter
by Liz Cronkhite

 September 18, 2009

Confusing the Dreamer with God

There is a tendency among people who are new to a spiritual path to confuse God with anything that is deemed "supernatural" in the world. A Course in Miracles addresses psychic powers, explaining that, in themselves, psychic powers do not have a spiritual value, except that they reveal to you that your mind is not limited to an isolated personal mind. Other than that, unless they are directed by the Holy Spirit, they have no value in your spiritual awakening. The same can be said for coincidences and synchronicity. Coincidences and synchronicity are occurring when you notice patterns in your life.

For example, you've been thinking about a certain topic, and all of a sudden every where you look there are books on that topic. There is no special meaning in this. All it shows is that you are in touch with the one mind that is the dreamer-of-the-dream of separation from God. Some people live in this awareness all the time, some people have moments when they notice patterns, and others find that they become more aware over time.

There is actually a lot of confusing the split mind that is the dreamer-of-the-dream with God. This is because, to the personal mind, the dreamer-of-the-dream is its god! The dreamer is the one mind that is the source of all personal selves, of the world, of the stories about the world, and of the "laws" that govern the world. The personal self is made in the image of the dreamer, and it is the dreamer's attributes that are erroneously projected onto God that make God seem frightening. It is the dreamer-as-god that you have to overcome to awaken to the Real God. When you believe that everything supernatural is God, then, all that you are doing is shifting from an illusion that material form is all that there is, to an illusion that material form and the dreamer-of-the-dream are all that there is. There is no real awakening.

Sometimes students think that coincidences and synchronicity are miracles. They can be, if your awareness of them comes from the Holy Spirit. Remember, though, that the Holy Spirit can only teach you through what you (the dreamer) made. This means that what you made is also available for the personal mind to use. Everything at the level of perception is open to interpretation, and can be used by either the personal mind or the Holy Spirit. And they will use them for diametrically opposed purposes.

[Leila]

This is an absolutely amazing read for me, and probably explains what many of us experience these days.

Wondering why we feel anger, sadness, negative emotions, now, when we are loved beyond imagination, and are surrounded by best ever persons in our lives. Why the happiness, joy, intimacy just vanish overnight and we find ourselves back to coldness and distance, from our Beloveds.

Cleansing, cleansing, let us release all the 'crap' and let LOVE in...The sooner and sincerely, the better ~

Shall we give "another try" to relationships?...   or give up forever?

Take a look at this "gem", maybe you relate too...

Love you,

Leila 

Splash-Out and the Spiritually Incorrect Room

a message from  Sarah Biermann
Thursday, 29 October, 2009

http://spiritlibrary.com/sarah-biermann/splash-out-and-the-spiritually-incorrect-room

The people I work with (play with!) are wonderful. They are so willing to uncreate all the belief systems, past hurts and other limitations and to embrace radical transformation! I love what I do because I get to spend time with these courageous and creative people.

Generally we have a lot of fun and move a lot of energy. At the end of a session they feel really different, clear, peaceful and confident. Sometimes, a few days later they experience what seems like all the old crap coming back in the form of negative emotions or dramas in their lives. What is going on with that?

When you make a shift in consciousness (release limitations and raise your frequency), everything that doesn’t match the frequency of the new awareness will automatically come up and out for clearing. This could be emotions, thoughts, mental patterns and even physical symptoms.

I’ll use the metaphor of water to represent the programming, beliefs, suppressed emotion etc. that we all carry. This water is held in a vessel (your energetic system). When something is dropped into the water, then some of the water is splashed out.

When you clear a lot of old programs and emotions and regain more of your true self like during an ImagiCreation session, your frequency raises. We'll call that shift a jewel or gem. When the gem is tossed into the water, what splashes out is everything that was limiting you in the past.

Another way that a gem can be tossed into your vessel is when something really loving and supporting is given to you. Imagine someone telling you that (s)he loves you very much. That's a nice big gem getting tossed into your glass. What splashes out is all the energy of feeling "un-lovable".

Splash-out is what causes the let down after Christmas. You get all these fabulous presents and the next day you feel disappointed.

Have you ever had the experience of spending a glorious day with a lover? You have shared an intimacy greater than ever before. Then something happens... Somebody makes a comment that starts a fight or at least creates bad feelings and distance between you. You had such lovely intimacy (the gem) and all the stuff that has prevented you from having intimacy in the past will come splashing out!

The reason the "negative" emotions are stored is that we have never had a safe space in which to feel them. Whether it was your father telling you that “big boys don’t cry” or your spiritual teacher telling you that you are supposed to stay in the positive emotions and “transmute anger into love”, basically, we are not supposed to feel or express fear, anger, hopelessness and shame. So when the splash-out comes up, most of the time we try to push is back down. What happens next is drama! When you suppress the splash out then you will create or be attracted to a dramatic experience that brings up those feelings because your energetic system want to discharge those emotions.

Example:

A woman has the experience of true intimacy. She receives the "gem" of respect, appreciation, and lovability. A couple of days later she wakes up one morning feeling low. She isn't feeling good about herself (old shame and low self worth). But she doesn't want to feel that, and besides, she has to go to work.

At work she has to talk to lawyer on behalf of a client. He makes really rude and insulting comments to her out of no-where. Usually, she would be able to handle this, even though it is offensive, but today she blows her stack. She throws the phone down and refuses to talk to the man again. This is a very upsetting experience for her and she has a big emotional reaction.

What happened? Because she didn't experience and clear the emotions when she became aware of them, she created a drama that compelled her to have the emotions.

Splash-out is happening on a global basis as well. As we move closer to the 2012 date (and so many of us are transforming ourselves personally) higher frequencies are flowing into the planet. This is like shining a light into a filthy room that has been closed for years or centuries. Now we can see that smelly, nasty stuff once again. All the hidden things that reside in the lower frequencies of fear, shame and greed are being exposed. People who are carrying suppressed emotions and have no awareness of this process are being triggered. This can manifest as aggression (especially to “protect” areas of fear or shame), depression and, of course, drama.

If some of the old, negative emotions or thoughts come up. Instead of thinking, “Oh no, all this stuff is coming back again”, realize that these things are on the way out. Usually what splashes out is the opposite of whatever gem went in. Realize that this is a good thing, a symptom of your path to clarity and joy!

Once you recognize the emotion as splash-out, say to yourself, "Yea, here it comes, up for clearing!" Go into it, feel it, experience it. I think you will be surprised at how quickly it is gone. Your mind will want to attach a meaning or context to the emotions and try to figure it all out. That’s its job after all; to perceive sensory information and relate it to something it already knows. Tell your mind (yes, you can talk to it!) that it doesn’t need to figure this out; that what is needed is to simply feel it as it moves out of you.

The emotion that most of us old souls have the most resistance to is anger. It is not “spiritually correct” to get mad. Instead we try to figure out what we need to do, clear or change about ourselves so that we will no longer attract the person or situation into our lives. “What am I doing wrong that causes my boss to be so mean to me?”

One thing that I have found is that anger is usually your systems way of letting you know that you are giving away your power in some way. The more you suppress it, the more likely you are to create or be attracted to situations that trigger your anger.

Welcome to the Spiritually Incorrect Room!

This space is sealed off from everything else. There are no possible repercussions, physical, or spiritual (karma). What happens in the Spiritually Incorrect Room stays in the Spiritually Incorrect Room! 

Within this room there is NO spiritual correctness allowed. That means no “I statements”, no prefacing with things like, “I know that you are doing the best you can…” or “I really do love you…” This is where you give voice to the angry child who is sick and tired of everybody having power over her/him. This is where you get to call names, swear, and even hit or stab.

For those of you who are thinking, “I would never do that!” get over yourself! There is a part of you that would like to, just once, tell the ex-spouse, boss, landlord, bank/financial institutions or perhaps even your Higher Self what you really think about them. If you knew that you would not go to Hell, get bad karma or loose points for being spiritual because you actually said or did these things, wouldn’t it be fun? (No animals were harmed in the making of this movie.)

The really fun part of the Spiritually Incorrect Room is that there are big, burly bodyguards that hold the person for you. You can even use a gag. Seal the room and then have at it! Tell them what you really think about them. Call names and even swear at them. Tell them that they will never treat you like that again! Tell them that you demand respect. Poke a finger into their chest or kick and punch if that feels better.

Keep at it until you feel peaceful and powerful once again. You deserve to be treated with respect. You are the most powerful being in your reality. It is OK to say, “I’ve had enough!”

Now we play a bit with the Star Trek Holodeck. Tell the computer to delete the offending program from your reality. Remember this is a sealed space. You are not killing anyone. What you are deleting is your own projection of that person as having power over you. Watch them be deleted from your reality. Doesn’t that feel good?

As we move ever closer to 2012 and ascension there will be more of the old, shadow energy coming up, personally and globally. The more you are able to clear your own material the less you will be triggered. And the more you will be able to keep your consciousness anchored in the New Reality. It’s not about always being positive (and therefore judging the negative). It is about having allowance for it all, which means stepping out of polarity, and from there having a chance to choose what you would like to experience and create.

On October 24th I hosted a free teleseminar about negative emotions, the Spiritually Incorrect Room and how to handle the upcoming events and energies on the planet. You can access the teleseminar here: http://limitless-one.com/index.asp?ID=107

[Talker]

This is an absolutely amazing read for me, and probably explains what many of us experience these days.

Wondering why we feel anger, sadness, negative emotions, now, when we are loved beyond imagination, and are surrounded by best ever persons in our lives. Why the happiness, joy, intimacy just vanish overnight and we find ourselves back to coldness and distance, from our Beloveds.

Cleansing, cleansing, let us release all the 'crap' and let LOVE in...The sooner and sincerely, the better ~

Shall we give "another try" to relationships?...   or give up forever?

Take a look at this "gem", maybe you relate too...

Love you,

Leila  

Splash-Out and the Spiritually Incorrect Room

a message from  Sarah Biermann
Thursday, 29 October, 2009

http://spiritlibrary.com/sarah-biermann/splash-out-and-the-spiritually-incorrect-room

The people I work with (play with!) are wonderful. They are so willing to uncreate all the belief systems, past hurts and other limitations and to embrace radical transformation! I love what I do because I get to spend time with these courageous and creative people.

Generally we have a lot of fun and move a lot of energy. At the end of a session they feel really different, clear, peaceful and confident. Sometimes, a few days later they experience what seems like all the old crap coming back in the form of negative emotions or dramas in their lives. What is going on with that?

When you make a shift in consciousness (release limitations and raise your frequency), everything that doesn’t match the frequency of the new awareness will automatically come up and out for clearing. This could be emotions, thoughts, mental patterns and even physical symptoms.

I’ll use the metaphor of water to represent the programming, beliefs, suppressed emotion etc. that we all carry. This water is held in a vessel (your energetic system). When something is dropped into the water, then some of the water is splashed out.

When you clear a lot of old programs and emotions and regain more of your true self like during an ImagiCreation session, your frequency raises. We'll call that shift a jewel or gem. When the gem is tossed into the water, what splashes out is everything that was limiting you in the past.

Another way that a gem can be tossed into your vessel is when something really loving and supporting is given to you. Imagine someone telling you that (s)he loves you very much. That's a nice big gem getting tossed into your glass. What splashes out is all the energy of feeling "un-lovable".

Splash-out is what causes the let down after Christmas. You get all these fabulous presents and the next day you feel disappointed.

Have you ever had the experience of spending a glorious day with a lover? You have shared an intimacy greater than ever before. Then something happens... Somebody makes a comment that starts a fight or at least creates bad feelings and distance between you. You had such lovely intimacy (the gem) and all the stuff that has prevented you from having intimacy in the past will come splashing out!

The reason the "negative" emotions are stored is that we have never had a safe space in which to feel them. Whether it was your father telling you that “big boys don’t cry” or your spiritual teacher telling you that you are supposed to stay in the positive emotions and “transmute anger into love”, basically, we are not supposed to feel or express fear, anger, hopelessness and shame. So when the splash-out comes up, most of the time we try to push is back down. What happens next is drama! When you suppress the splash out then you will create or be attracted to a dramatic experience that brings up those feelings because your energetic system want to discharge those emotions.

Example:

A woman has the experience of true intimacy. She receives the "gem" of respect, appreciation, and lovability. A couple of days later she wakes up one morning feeling low. She isn't feeling good about herself (old shame and low self worth). But she doesn't want to feel that, and besides, she has to go to work.

At work she has to talk to lawyer on behalf of a client. He makes really rude and insulting comments to her out of no-where. Usually, she would be able to handle this, even though it is offensive, but today she blows her stack. She throws the phone down and refuses to talk to the man again. This is a very upsetting experience for her and she has a big emotional reaction.

What happened? Because she didn't experience and clear the emotions when she became aware of them, she created a drama that compelled her to have the emotions.

Splash-out is happening on a global basis as well. As we move closer to the 2012 date (and so many of us are transforming ourselves personally) higher frequencies are flowing into the planet. This is like shining a light into a filthy room that has been closed for years or centuries. Now we can see that smelly, nasty stuff once again. All the hidden things that reside in the lower frequencies of fear, shame and greed are being exposed. People who are carrying suppressed emotions and have no awareness of this process are being triggered. This can manifest as aggression (especially to “protect” areas of fear or shame), depression and, of course, drama.

If some of the old, negative emotions or thoughts come up. Instead of thinking, “Oh no, all this stuff is coming back again”, realize that these things are on the way out. Usually what splashes out is the opposite of whatever gem went in. Realize that this is a good thing, a symptom of your path to clarity and joy!

Once you recognize the emotion as splash-out, say to yourself, "Yea, here it comes, up for clearing!" Go into it, feel it, experience it. I think you will be surprised at how quickly it is gone. Your mind will want to attach a meaning or context to the emotions and try to figure it all out. That’s its job after all; to perceive sensory information and relate it to something it already knows. Tell your mind (yes, you can talk to it!) that it doesn’t need to figure this out; that what is needed is to simply feel it as it moves out of you.

The emotion that most of us old souls have the most resistance to is anger. It is not “spiritually correct” to get mad. Instead we try to figure out what we need to do, clear or change about ourselves so that we will no longer attract the person or situation into our lives. “What am I doing wrong that causes my boss to be so mean to me?”

One thing that I have found is that anger is usually your systems way of letting you know that you are giving away your power in some way. The more you suppress it, the more likely you are to create or be attracted to situations that trigger your anger.

Welcome to the Spiritually Incorrect Room!

This space is sealed off from everything else. There are no possible repercussions, physical, or spiritual (karma). What happens in the Spiritually Incorrect Room stays in the Spiritually Incorrect Room! 

Within this room there is NO spiritual correctness allowed. That means no “I statements”, no prefacing with things like, “I know that you are doing the best you can…” or “I really do love you…” This is where you give voice to the angry child who is sick and tired of everybody having power over her/him. This is where you get to call names, swear, and even hit or stab.

For those of you who are thinking, “I would never do that!” get over yourself! There is a part of you that would like to, just once, tell the ex-spouse, boss, landlord, bank/financial institutions or perhaps even your Higher Self what you really think about them. If you knew that you would not go to Hell, get bad karma or loose points for being spiritual because you actually said or did these things, wouldn’t it be fun? (No animals were harmed in the making of this movie.)

The really fun part of the Spiritually Incorrect Room is that there are big, burly bodyguards that hold the person for you. You can even use a gag. Seal the room and then have at it! Tell them what you really think about them. Call names and even swear at them. Tell them that they will never treat you like that again! Tell them that you demand respect. Poke a finger into their chest or kick and punch if that feels better.

Keep at it until you feel peaceful and powerful once again. You deserve to be treated with respect. You are the most powerful being in your reality. It is OK to say, “I’ve had enough!”

Now we play a bit with the Star Trek Holodeck. Tell the computer to delete the offending program from your reality. Remember this is a sealed space. You are not killing anyone. What you are deleting is your own projection of that person as having power over you. Watch them be deleted from your reality. Doesn’t that feel good?

As we move ever closer to 2012 and ascension there will be more of the old, shadow energy coming up, personally and globally. The more you are able to clear your own material the less you will be triggered. And the more you will be able to keep your consciousness anchored in the New Reality. It’s not about always being positive (and therefore judging the negative). It is about having allowance for it all, which means stepping out of polarity, and from there having a chance to choose what you would like to experience and create.

On October 24th I hosted a free teleseminar about negative emotions, the Spiritually Incorrect Room and how to handle the upcoming events and energies on the planet. You can access the teleseminar here: http://limitless-one.com/index.asp?ID=107

Quite a telling article and read. Sadly, some will be turned off by the length of the read. Not all assists comes in a short form though. We are complex 'beings', so a constant 'fast food' mentality in finding 'inner tranquility' needs to be overcome.

When I first became aware, decades ago, of how 'complex' our 'inner 'Psyche' is, was my 'first step' toward reaching 'normal insanity'.
I've sub-quoted a few areas in the article, that WILL keep popping up in all efforts to eliminate the 'negative and troublesome' energies that keep plaguing ones life.
Yes, deeply embedded 'hurts and unrecognized buried labels' that go back to early childhood and up to where you are 'now', still 'lurk', waiting for the opportune time, to 'explode' into any relationship.
How and why some minor and innocent events can lead to massive upsets, is 'what' I endeavored to explain in my post.
Yes, it's a long post, but how else to cover what needed to be covered and explained!
Be Well

http://thetalker.org/archives/65/63-why-did-i-do-that-updated-12-14-2007/

[juliainkc]

Hi Beloved Leila, Talker and All ~

Thank you both for your genuine Heart Sharing here. May this be received in the Spirit of Love with which it is intended.

It is a mixed bag. In having these kinds of experiences in my own life as you both are or have in this moment, I have noticed after the passing through it more and more that through each one, coming to the now place of taking what spoke to me and leaving the rest, that while we all go through these things just in 'different' point of space and time sequence, we do reach a place of not 'falling' for the triggers more and more. We keep on walking or step out of the emotional energy range. We remain in our Peace.

The first time this beginning to shift happened to me years ago with a Beloved friend, was interesting because in retrospect it shifted in both of us the needing someone to feel what I feel to be validated in the way I felt or they felt idea. A false belief was being removed here and this does not necessarily mean it will be a comfortable experience while the 'splinter' is being removed. It wasn't about what he or she said, it was about how I was reacting to what was being said. Another 'lesson' in taking ownership and responsibility for my life and not being run over by mine or others emotional baggage.

We can listen to what is going on in another's life without drowning in it, taking it on for them and fussing and fuming with them. Truth.
I recall saying to my friend when sharing about the upheavals in my life at this time, 'Thank you for listening but don't carry this with you, don't take it on.' She was uncomfortable in that she would share her upheavals and I would not take them on. It just happened to be something I was shown to do earlier on to begin practicing. And I would say, 'I have faith in you that you will be fine and know what to do that is right for you.' She also has in turn shared this with me. It is very InPowering. It is saying to another, You can do this, you have it in you. It will happen when you decide to know this. No one can do this for another. This is compassion not sympathy which gets one into feeling the emotions along with another and the pain and suffering and you begin to 'worry' for your friend, etc...

It did not feel great in the beginning of the process of detoxing yet, in staying with it, one does come to release or surrender the 'stuck stuff' more and more. So, when a friend is experiencing by revealing in their outburst these things and explodes, I do not feel obligated to join in the 'suffering' and can be at Peace with it and allow them 'time' to sort through their own bags. I check mine too to see if I am still holding these emotions and if not, I can rest in Peace with this knowing without needing the other to understand me. I can remain quiet in my space.

Emotions can get the best of us especially if we are prone to be dependent upon them to define who we are. Peaceful emotions are another thing. And this is what I practice more and more myself.

We are not our emotions. We create them. Being in this way now has taken alot of years to come to and I have to be honest and say, the difference is amazing. Saying this does not mean we are to be robots. But we do not have to get into the emotions with another to make one feel anything nor they us. Still giving power to another and or controlling another based on what I think is right to feel Love and Acceptance.

And when we are or have gone through these things, how open are we to really being able to take a look inside of ourself and remove all blame for ourself and others? It is just something rising into the Light saying, Is this true?

Love and Acceptance of another is allowing one to take some time to sort through themself, being Inner focused and allowing them know what they already know.

This does not take away from one being a Child of God. Which is why I love sharing things that 'rock the boat' so ones can think beyond the currents they are and have been swimming in for years. Sharing what was shared with me and yes, I do share with Loving Intentions.

Be the kind of friend that is not needy and manipulates with guilt on how one must be for you to feel okay with you. Having a rough day? Have it, yes, speak with a friend but know that if you take your anger or whatever insecurity you are feeling out on them, they have the right to say, no thank you, I don't have the emotional energy to feed you. That is Love and honesty. And if someone is able to say this, then they must be willing to receive it for themself.

We all share things with our friends. Sense the energy but don't take it on. We can come to a place of Loving others without need. We Love because we have come to realize that we are complete in Love and have the Peace of abiding in IT. InPowering another that they are able to share their stuff yet still carry their own stuff as well as themself as you are. We are not victims of circumstance nor another unless we still have seeds of believing this and that is what situations like this reveal.

Throwing one a line in Peaceful trusting doesn't mean you have to drown with another to show them you love them by 'trying' to save them from their emotional panics.

We are far more Powerful than we realize,

Blessing you with Peace for the Journey, Harmony and to the Joy of uncovering the truth of LOVE already in place in each one of us,

Love to All, and pardon the length of my genuine Heart thoughts flowing here,

Julia

[juliainkc]

Good Late Evening Everyone,

Wow Laura!! Meow ~  You look great in your costume!!

Change is all around us right now and it can be uncomfortable. I sense that what we are going though is adjustments to what seems 'new' and unfamiliar, yet, it is really returning to what is Real and familiar just covered over for a very long while. Disorientation is quite common when it seems the rug is being pulled out from under our feet.

Short and Sweet from Daily Om and deeply vibing, especially the last paragraph, which sums it up so well. Italics mine ...

Be Blessed, Be Well.

Good Night All,

Loves Abiding Peace flowing your way ~

Julia


October 29, 2009

Uncharted Territory

Feeling Lost

When we are lost, we typically look at a map to figure out where we are and how to get to our chosen destination. This works well, assuming that there is a map of the territory in which we find ourselves, and assuming that we know our destination. However, this is not always the case.

At this time in human history, we are all venturing into uncharted territory, whether we know it or not. And as individuals, we may find ourselves covering ground that our predecessors never even knew existed. When we look to them for guidance, they often come up short. Not knowing exactly where we are, we find ourselves unsure of which way to go, and eventually the uneasy feeling that we are lost presents itself.

The beauty of being lost is the same thing that makes it scary—it asks us to look within ourselves to find the way. If we have no map, we must go on instinct, relying on our inner compass to show us which way to go. This can be scary because so much seems to be riding on it. We fear we might go too far in the wrong direction, or become paralyzed and make no progress at all.

And yet, this is the very challenge we need to develop our ability to trust ourselves. We are also learning to trust that the universe will support and guide us. We may believe this intellectually, but it is only through experience that it becomes knowledge of the heart. Learning to be okay with being lost and trusting that we will be guided, we begin our journey.

We can support ourselves by confirming that we don’t need to know exactly where we are going in order to take our first steps. We are learning to feel our own way, rather than following an established path, and in doing so we learn to trust ourselves. It is this trust that connects us to the universe and reminds us that no matter how lost we feel, and even as we journey, on the inner level we are already home.

[Kadensnga]

Dearly Beloveds,

Of what can I speak, save that which is already stirring within your souls?

Having numerous times explained my position with deep caring and sincererity to an 'individual" here who has chosen to play the role of being adversely effected by the manifestion of our harmonious agreement to co create a a mis~creation, I will explain myself in other terms... perhaps with a seeming lack of sensitivity or emotional attachment.

Firstly?

Who chooses to miscreate?

If we listen closely, there is an inner sense when we are mis~creating, or headed toward ideas that are not for the highest good of all, and inner sense that says "you are recreating a past mistake..." or "you are headed toward a situation that is not in perfect harmony with what is wanted".

That is our inward guidance system.

Especially when two co~creators decide to head a direction that is not considerate to 'others' involved ..., and not recognizing those 'other' "Gods'" , not saying "Namaste" really to the others...

When two come together harmoniously with the intention of miscreating, listening closely they can almost hear each other silently saying; "I am going to teach you a lesson,. Do you want to learn it the easy way or the hard way"?

But they pretend not to hear...that's is called deliberate miscreation... when passio is present it can even be enticing and blissfully sinful... in the sense of sinning against one OWN PERSONAL CONSTITUTION, from a perspective of being totally aware of the crime.

Why deliberately mis create?

The answers to that question are endless, but not because the universe wants us to learn lessons, but rather because "We are vibrationally crying out for said lessons on our own".

Hmmm...

In any event, we must understand that we are not victims EVER, everything in our reality is a mirror of our own vibration. My face is what the mirror looks like "backwards".

Does anyone want to talk about harmony...?

It is virtually IMPOSSIBLE to attract ANYTHING....that you are not in harmony with, and thus harmony ALWAYS exists. This is where we get the saying "All is as it should be..." or, "All is appropriate", because it is impossible to be out of harmony!

We can only receive the vibrational match to our own frequency.... we can only reap the vibration that we sow... if we are sowing vibrationally the query "I want to know to know how to deal with pain, or how to end my marriage, or come to harmony with it..." the universe delivers the class that is in vibrational harmony with that out cry.

The universe is always collecting data for us to see the polarity in situations, offering contrast to help us get a clearer view of what is wanted... Clarity comes from knowing what is wanted clearly. The other side of the coin, or the reflection in the mirror is what is "not" wanted.

If we are sowing the vibration "I want to learn to not repeat my past mistakes..." then the universe will bring what is harmonic to that end; perhaps a situation where we can confront the reason we keep making the mistake and learn to stop repeating it..."

As Talker in his beliefs blog # 141 eludes to... the systems that govern all these things we cry out for and the hundreds of different places the highways connect...and all the directions they go and where they take us are infinite and complex...who knows "why"?

The reasons are as complicated as the vast interstate systems that lead anywhere and everywhere.

There is only one thing I know... and that is this;

When one attracts what is not appropriate with no regard for the inner voice...there is only one thing they can reap, and that is ANOTHER who is also headed in the same direction ...

Is this good or bad?

There is no judgement for either because both attracted harmoniously the lesson...What we receive is the same thing that we give...looking at itself in the mirror.

In common language I will say this.

To the ONE who KNOWS who she is, " we both attracted this situation, and we both know that we were not honoring ourselves or the other "Gods" in the involved... furthermore, everyone who is privy to knowing either of us 'personally' outside of this forum, also knows that we were both headed for a hard lesson (only as hard as we choose...could be an easy one if we choose as well)... and they are aware that , though our ideas were flowery, sounded beautiful and poetic and "were" no doubt very romantic... it was only a reflection of what was truly wanted...the backward image in the mirror of what is the "real" wanting.

We were expressing our passion like an artist expresses his mental projections...for this reason; so we could "view" them.

They, our friends,  witnessed this, as we shared a common alibi for our passionate dancing in the dark, our imaginary "rendezvous",  that alibi for the imaginary rendevouz being this very forum... the intentions, on an authentic level , the witnesses that include you and I, knew werent very "noble", and that we were headed for a lesson being learned, and they , again; the witnesses that included you and I, stood back and observed the process in an aware state, as we all watched the movie play out to an easily anticipated end...confirming the truth as we went along. Knowing the outcome would be harmless.

Were the intentions to lash out at another who hurt us in the past, or make up for what we perceived was a failure and gain back our false ego motivated sense of self worth...? Who knows.

Let me admit to my crime,

My inward voice within knew going into this that I wasnt in the position to entertain such things, and was swept away by your powerful ways, not like a victim, but ike a very willing participant, and you also were not in a position to honor such ideas as you were caught up in my own vibration, not as a victim but a willing participant...and you knew this as well.

Furthermore...we were both aware on some level of the others inability to fulfill such ideals under such circumstances...yet we played our roles out anyway, because we wanted to see the movie. Together we were headed in a direction that we both knew wasnt the ideal direction.

One of us being older than the other I can say that we are both not naive in this life.

I will admit it it, will you? Will you step into the light of authenticity with me holding hands in vibrational agreement, just as we walked into the lesson holding hands in vibrational agreement to miscreate in the light?

Our friends can testify that there are no accusers in the light,no back side to the pendulum swing, no sting in saying I was wrong from an emotionally detached place...and they all support us and celebrate with us when we are able to reach such authenticity.

No one accuses us...me...you...they only observe and hope for our growth...and love unconditionally, knowing that they having witnessed similar dichotomies things in their own life experiences, they are aware that we are all having the same human experience together.

There is no shame in saying :"I have had the intentional miscreation" experience

All esoteric language aside...I am ready to pass this class.

All humaness being considered...I am sorry we hurt one another in the illusion world, but I truly believe we are boundless enough, evolved enough , aware enough and obviously "harmonic" enough to walk up to the podium together holding hands...and accept our graduation certificates with pride, and hug each other and say "we did it" as our friends cheer us on! Let's create something else together now!

In truth;

Our flesh is playing out the circumstances created by our vibration. All things in our lives are harmonious with our primary vibrations. There is no reason for a long face or a sad heart... or an aching for your beloved, who is not even truly gone, but only transformed into the manifestation of your intentional mutual co~creation...

In truth;

Your ideal soul mate is a man who will act in honor and do whats right, and that's not what I was doing. My ideal soul mate is the same, and that's not what you were doing either...we both are still harmonic with the vibration that attracts what is not our highest ideal... which is why this manifested, and which is why we both still have more to learn before the ideal situation can manifest... we have not achieved total clarity about what is wanted and this a was part of the data that the universe collected for us to help us identify more clearly what is wanted.

Again,

Let's stop talking code language and lay the cards on the table.

Indeed...do you feel the joy? Let us warmly embrace authenticity and nakedness!

For my actions, and for the sake of the flesh who played out it's role in our movie wich we have produced here, I apologize to you in the language of the illusion, but in reality I know that we manifested this for our own growth. Not the universe but rather "us".

Now as you read this, and decide wether or not to step into the light together, the response of  "I was not talking about you"... is an option, certainly the vague language of previous posts have facilited for that to be a plausible deniability...but then soo is authenticity and nakedness are an option.

Hmmm... which will we choose?

My friend, I love you like a wonderful sibling... and your attraction power is no doubt immense, and I was taken away by your beauty... I say this to you though as a friend, "looks like we got in trouble again running off where our father advised us not to..." dont worry I got your back...I'll tell him that it was my fault.

I will stand before the world in the light and say I intentionally mis~created for what reason I do not know, and hurt a dear sister in the process...

Though I do not truly believe she is hurt in my heart, nor surprised... if this belief of "someone hurt me" will comfort one, then let that one be comforted.

I leave you with a lesson from one of my most deep core teachings... and inner room in my very heart containing a royal scroll written in golden ink, which I believe to be the salve for any wounds:

http://leb.net/~mira/works/prophet/prophet8.html

Namaste to all,
John

[Talker]

Hello Kadensnga and All Sharing Souls,

Reading this post, brings forth many memories of battles that were and are part of my path on the 'learning curve of life.

Not to treat lightly, (the post here) but can readily identify with it.
The sun rose, the rivers flowed, the flowers bloomed, the burden eased, harmony and beauty restored and all is again, well.
And so it came to pass.
Not that I've settled all the issues.
But awareness is the first step in making any corrections.

Sheesh, why are all those things that create the most discordant sounds the easiest to do! Ah yes, the learning curve, something needed to fill in the gaps of the life puzzle.
What!
Who needs this kind of battle. Apparently I needed the many missteps that Paul wrote and complained about.
Needed! 
Sheesh, your 'nuts, no one in their right mind 'needs' events that cause inner conflicts and outer problems. Became a two steps forward and ten steps backwards.
Talk about backsliding, it was for awhile, humorous in nature.

Eventually it became an annoyance.
Ah, I thought, I'll outgrow it.

Well, it's not quite that easy, doable with practice, step by step, as the life drama unfolds, dripping blood all the while, from gaping wounds..

Forgive me Father, for I know not what I do.

So one day as I came across this bible verse, it kind of tickled my funny bone, that what I was experiencing was an age old problem.

At times life is like that old saying of 'the faster I go, the behinder I get'.

Did I outgrow it, give me a break, it's still step by step.
Be Well

Romans 7:15-25 (King James Version)

"For that which I do, I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I."

[Mina-Laura]

 awareness is the first step in making any corrections.

Sheesh, why are all those things that create the most discordant sounds the easiest to do!

Ah yes, the learning curve, something needed to fill in the gaps of the life puzzle.
What!


Romans 7:15-25 (King James Version)

"For that which I do, I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I."

reading from the lips of wisdom ...

[Kadensnga]

Where a man treasure is there you will find his heart also...

When one invests an hour or even two in a post he is giving you something that is "worth" something to him... a virtual "part of him self" ...intimacy....

This paints a more complete picture than a quick note and quoting a mind that has already quoted itself... this is a contribution of "self's" life force...it is fresh meat being brought to the table, a big steaming bowl of fresh universal mind substance.

Long posts, I will remind as always, contribute to the power of the forum... they bring more awareness by powerfully attract higher search engine rankings and visitors...

Indeed, no one should be scolded for giving of themselves in the form of contribution.

Still, information over load... people making choices as to what it appropiate for their time... understandable...I dont read everything either...only what calls me.

Namaste to all,
John