Relationships and Spirituality

[juliainkc]

Hi Sky and All,

Hmm ... my focus has been on you lately. You are a wonderful Living Breathing example of 'Resurrection' Sky. Truth.

While I did not view all of these, just the first one It Self was wonderful!!! Out of the mouth of babes!

Interesting that this child mentions cords... very symbolic truly. We must be open to seeing the cords that are attached to us in our current reality...

There is a moment to sever old chords to allow new chords to form. Like a spider whose web is knocked down by a storm... rebuilds. Learn, Unlearn, relearn ...

Just musing out loud...

Love begins with you everyone, Truth. Otherwise, what are you basing your experience on? Hmm ...

And this means to love the darkness in you, embrace it like a Black Velvet cloak and It will keep you warm ...

Food for thought ~

Julia musing out loud,

Namaste` All,

Love? I Am Lovingkindness breathing,

Julia

A good "blog" I have RSS feed for in browser... Since these are mainly about relationships...

http://lynneforrest.com/blog/

Some recent ones that caught my attention. Plenty of eye-opening ones on ego and victim mentality.

The Three Faces of Victim: An Overview of the Drama Triangle

Lessons from a 7 year old on the Nature of Connection to Source Energy
Finding the “Right” Relationship
Staying Focused On Source
Appreciating the Hard Times
Rooted in the Reality of Having Enough
Transcending A State Of Victimhood
Resistance: Food for the Victim Ego
Setting Boundaries or Delivering Ultimatums?
Victimhood Is Our Made-Up Stories About Reality
Victory Over Victim: Giving Up the “I Give Up” Mindset
The Victim Mind-Set & Its Healthier Opposite
Resisting the Temptation to Let Victim Ego Rule
Overcoming Temptation on the Journey to Consciousness
Those We Resist Teach Us The Most

[Leila]

If it looks like Love, smells like Love and feels like Love, then it is Love.

Spirit just moved me to say this, for some (unknown) reason...

Much Love,

Leila

[juliainkc]

Yes Indeed Beloved Leila,

And for some : ~ LOVE = Pain, so to each their own, we have our paths that all lead to home ~

LOVE in Authenticity is Pain less ~

TRUTH,

Julia, cutting through the 'crapola',

 

aka Warrior Princess ~

something like this ~ aka ~ WomanChild ~


I AM The Spiritual Warrior

[Leila]

Yes, Beloved Twin Sister Julia,

Unconditional Love is always painless.

This doesn't mean that I did not suffer alot because of "Love"... 

Thank God I am now in wonderful vibes, which tells me that I am connected with Self, and loving Unconditionally everyone.

Still, my Love for my Soul Family is infinite, eternal, deep, burning, tender, passionate...

Namaste, Julia, Darrell, Talker, John - we are all ONE!

I Love you deeply!

Leila

[juliainkc]

Yes, Beloved Twin Sister Julia,

Unconditional Love is always painless.

This doesn't mean that I did not suffer alot because of "Love"... 

Indeed Beloved Twin Soul Sister Livia. We are Unconditional Love when we do not 'feel' the effects of suffering at all ...

Truth, it is not even in our NOW MOMENT of LOVE Experiencing ONE Self ...

Kiss and hugs, no one can give this to you TRUTH, that is UN Conditonal LOVE ~

Julia

[Talker]

Yes Indeed Beloved Leila,

And for some : ~ LOVE = Pain, so to each their own, we have our paths that all lead to home ~

LOVE in Authenticity is Pain less ~

TRUTH,

Julia, cutting through the 'crapola',

 

aka Warrior Princess ~

something like this ~ aka ~ WomanChild ~

I AM The Spiritual Warrior

Yes, Beloved Twin Sister Julia,

Unconditional Love is always painless.

This doesn't mean that I did not suffer alot because of "Love"... 

Thank God I am now in wonderful vibes, which tells me that I am connected with Self, and loving Unconditionally everyone.

Still, my Love for my Soul Family is infinite, eternal, deep, burning, tender, passionate...

Namaste, Julia, Darrell, Talker, John - we are all ONE!

I Love you deeply!

Leila

Dear Sharing Souls,

Striding the path of Unconditional Love, has proven for me, a bitter sweet learning curve. Deeply embedded, still within ones ego, are the transient remnants yet to be transfigured, and awakened to the True Christhood that dwells there.
The death and rebirth of ego segments, the reluctance to let go, when unspeakable acts beg understanding, and welcoming the unforgivable act of an experiencing soul, with Unconditional Love. Release of cherished hates, under those conditions, is to say the least, trial by fire.
Relationships of deep love, shattered, albeit necessary to fill in the experience gaps, before wholeness arrives, leaving one wondering 'just what hit them', that such is being experienced.
Ones trust in another wantonly played with, and finally tossed into nothingness. Ah, such bitter tasting soul food.
Yet one needs to cherish and embrace the experience, for the moments of joy that were there, as those moments are part of ones life tapestry.
Words of 'I love you' sincerely spoken, are forever, woven into your life path, even though there was a parting. Hate freely indulged in, seriously tilts the scale of balance, but not in your favor, when the final reckoning is taking place. The path of Unconditional Love is a learning curve for many, easily spoken about, less easily lived.
Yet it is a highly 'doable' learning curve.
Be Well

[Leila]

Dear Beloved Talker,

Yes, relationships are our path to enlightenment.

What can 'harm' us more than the "unforgivable", coming from a Beloved Soul?

Yet, we know that it's all illusion, all within, and all reflection of consciousness of Self.

I feel myself at a point where love is eternal for all those Beloved, men and women. Not sure how this will develop further, how such love can 'harmonize' with 'social rules'.

I dare to stay away from those I'm not in harmony with, even if very close, like part of family, and spend my time and focus on those "on my level", in resonance with my current frequency.

It's still bitter-sweet, and all I can do is go with the flow and follow my intuition. And also send streams of love to my Beloveds, to wrap them in Love's energy.

Indeed, it's all needed as "experience", to 'fill the gaps", and only higher awareness and enlightenment can spare us of "pain". The level of awareness where we no longer "need" filling the gaps. Where we are LOVE. Unconditional. In full allowance.

However, each 'painful' experience leads us closer to Self, Unconditional Love and Happiness. It is to be cherished and embraced, but God, please don't give me another one soon, I'm begging you...let me breathe for a while, my Father! 

Embracing you in burning Love,

Leila

[juliainkc]

Yes ...

In viewing Talker and Leila's response, I am viewing the buffet of Life ~

Now, holding my open yet to fill bowl before the Mongolian Buffet, I observe the offerings based on being experienced at this buffet and now can choose what makes me feel GOD or Good... LOVE IS GOD for GOD is LOVE ...

you, you and you is ~ a little bit of this and a little bit of that, stir, shake, pound, ground, fry, toss and all sorts of playing with and voila ~ omg!! what is this?!?! It is a mess!?!!! LOL!! yeah, so, wipe the slate clean and take from it what 'not' to do to do what to do what ya do to do your 'voodoo' you hoo ~

how did I reach this place? by my own doing? well yes and by my own doing I realized that I was one clown short of a circus ~ in this arena of Love 

So, can I get a hand up here? Thank you! in Advance of course for the advantage! Lol!! So rise above the buffet and see IT ALL and then decide. Who is above all this? Why You of course!! Only You can choose to rise above your seemingly life experience and view it with your Higher Self...

Tossing a catalyst into the mix,

Love Abounds,

Julia

[Leila]

Karmic Relationships: Finding the Balance Within

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SqcrT1QVUKA&feature=player_embedded#

The Twin Flame Blessing

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDF_6STnjrU&feature=related

Loving you All deeply,

Leila 

[juliainkc]

Morning All ~

Aaah ~ Stretch, like a cat upon awakening and feeling the 'blood' circulate. A 'new' day has begun...

How's it going in your household today?

Julia, cozy in her bed is awakened by a teeny tiny squeaky early morning voice ~ 'Amma, water!!' Voice octave rising in demand as I say, in sleepy voice, 'Aleena, I Am getting you water'.

Now, I muse at this little wonder, a Self expression of me ...

Yesterday, her mother and aunt Sommer, went 'costume' shopping for all the kids for All Hallow's Eve ... and the fun begins ~

I want to be a butterfly princess says Aleena. Once costume is home and tried on, oh my!! where are my shoes!! demands this 3 year expression! LOL!!

So, mom has to return the costume because said 3 year wonder decides she wants to be 'Abbie Kaddabie'...

Mom comes home and whispers in my ear, 'I didn't know who this 'Abbie Kaddabie' was, and she is from Sesame Street'.

So, this morning, Aleena, in nightgown wants to put her Abbie Kaddabie on ... and I looked at my beloved 3 year wonder from the back of her head and was taken 'back' in memory ... deja vu ~

The back of my head as a 3 year wonder. My dad called my hair, easily tangled at this age, 'a Rat's nest'. LOL!! Yes ...

And so, ... hmmm ... seeing myself in past, Present, future mode all at One or once ~

Ramble? perhaps, or multiple possibilities ~ why settle for two Universes? Hmm? Why not the totality of All possibilities ~

See yourself today in the many ways of expressing as a WomanChild, A ManBoy ~

And now ~ we dance ~

Ladies and Lords of the dance ~

Relating with?

Our Self,

Doesn't matter to me if anyone 'gets' this truly ~

I love you All,

Come to my 'Costume' Party and play to your Heart's content,

Julia   which one am I? hmm ...

[juliainkc]

This short article from Guy Finley is timely. It flows together nicely with Adrian's wonderful weekend newsletter.

Amen ~ 


Stop Fighting with Life and Be Free


All battles with life end in the same moment of seeing that the only thing you really ever fight with is yourself.

This Key Unlocks the Door to an Unthinkable Freedom
The next time you run into some familiar blockage or begin to feel unsuited to face some new and difficult personal challenge, don't do what you've always done before. Don't try to think your way around it. You no longer want a way around your troubles because what goes around, comes around! What you want is to grow beyond the level of that disturbance. And to do that, you must not act from it.

So don't allow yourself to be pulled down into any anxious concern or confusion over not knowing what to do about your present condition. What you really want is an insight into your situation, not a fight with it. The two have nothing in common. So make it clear to yourself once and for all: nothing that hounds you can help you.

Draw yourself back from your usual thinking. Quietly observe it race around looking for the shelter of a conclusion it can recognize. Have nothing to do with its frantic motion.

You've gone as far as you can go with what you know. Now it's time to know that, so that you can let what you know go, and let something unthinkable occur to you. Just relax.

Pressuring yourself to come up with a happy ending to a sad or shaky situation only goes to show you still believe that you can resolve these troubles. But if you could have, you would have by now. Besides, your lower nature wants you to confuse these feelings of pressure for being some kind of proof of personal progress. It's done its job well. After all these years you're afraid to live without this feeling of habitually prodding yourself, for fear that without it, you might get stuck! The solution here is to see that, in fact, you are stuck! This powerful insight releases you from the pressure of wanting anything from yourself.

Now you've done what you can do. You've prepared the stage, your own mind, for the arrival of a higher nature and a new kind of freedom. But learn to expect it in the unexpected. To paraphrase the New Testament: be ever watchful for you don't know when -- or how -- something higher will make itself known to you.

There may come a flash of insight, a clear glimpse into some self-created cause of your own continuing inner captivity. Or, perhaps, a sudden and sweet deep sense of wholeness will sweep through you, a quiet but profound intuition, wherein you know yourself, for that moment, to be one with all of that life pulsating around and within you.

However that Light breaks into the darkened room of self, consider each brief illumination as an appointed messenger, a heavenly herald sent in advance of a greater freedom to come. Learn to embrace each appearance, for regardless of what may be revealed -- to you or about you -- these insights are not unlike the sound of the shouts of liberation heard always just before the arrival of the liberating forces. A new freedom always follows. Now, follow it.

-- Guy Finley

[Skyalmian]

[Very "relevant", as always, Julia... Arigatou... Much of it applies to me fully (same issue w/lease ongoing)...]

Sky? I saw your Arigato! Takusan Do I tashi mashte` or as I said to my mother, sounds like, 'don't toucha my moustache'!

Still, I say Arigatou... I deleted the post instead of editing out the bulk of it -- a September journal entry about me recognizing that I was misdirecting my current life circumstances at "others" instead of myself. I now recognize that such things should remain in private, in the past, processed and done with... Otherwise they just "clutter" the forum with dirty energy...

[juliainkc]

Hi Dear Sky,

Your Avatar is refreshing and wonderful! I also liked your first one.

This is the beauty of journaling really, it shows us how much we believe in our Self or our Story and how deeply we are entangled in the web, and also how vast our ability to create ourself in many ways is.

Saying no thank you, I'll pass, is Love Being expressed as well.

I have and do InJoy observing ones progression in the forums of 'other' ones like 'You'.

Dō itashi mashite Sky,

Love in Spirit,

Julia

[juliainkc]

Mmm, being brought back in to share with Beloved Sky,

[Very "relevant", as always, Julia... Arigatou... Much of it applies to me fully (same issue w/lease ongoing)...]

Sky? I saw your Arigato! Takusan Do I tashi mashte` or as I said to my mother, sounds like, 'don't toucha my moustache'!

Still, I say Arigatou... I deleted the post instead of editing out the bulk of it -- a September journal entry about me recognizing that I was misdirecting my current life circumstances at "others" instead of myself. I now recognize that such things should remain in private, in the past, processed and done with... Otherwise they just "clutter" the forum with dirty energy...

I have to say, follow your Heart in these things as in your 'intentions', we can share the tapestry of our daily goings on from the 'angle' we are seeing from.

I played in the dirty mud today and it felt slimy and yet, I love the feeling of taking a shower and noticing the 'differences' and InJoying them both... kind of thing ...

Both are being experienced as novelties or as dichotomies as in one is good and one is 'bad' ...

Just felt this song rising to sing in Dr. Suess fashion, your 'Happy UnBirthday' song from Alice in Wonderland or Alice Through the Looking Glass expresssion ...

Julia reading to Sky from the Library of Magical Books ~

Kiss and hugs,

You hoo,  Yes, You know 'Who' ~

[Kadensnga]

Perhaps 'we' should (my inward dialogues as in ~ "let us make man in our image~ ) all bring our focus to loving self and universal love for all that is equal without any 'specialness" uniqueness" or the whole "twin flame" kind of thing... this seems to damn up the flow...not a concrete thought. Just musing in the moment.

Pain lies within 'attachment"... this is what all the masters of the far east teach...freedom from attachment is the highest state of being.