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« Reply #165 on: May 10, 2009, 11:08:07 »

Hello Everyone, cool

I am sharing an excellent article written by none other than our Beloved brother Darrell.

It is an inspired expression of the relationship we have with ourself and this is by far the most important one as it truly reflects Itself in the world around us as we know IT and see IT...


http://humangreatness-darrell.blogspot.com/


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Meditation ~
Human Energy Management

Meditation has been around since the first Human looked to the sky and was lost in thought, wondering what was beyond the stars.

There are also many forms and styles of it, yet it is all designed to take us to the same place - ourselves. The infamous Self - I - I AM. Yet it is a simple process with extremely profound results. What was once a mysterious practice of Monks living in temples on a mountain, is now becoming an integral part of world cultures.

In my own teachings I have dispelled with the ancient terminology’s of Sacred texts, as science has now joined in the idea that Human wholeness is a matter of honoring the Sacredness and the scientific aspects of the Human experience. Meditation is as profound to the biology of us as it is to our spiritual aspects. No longer do we view these as enemies, or even as separate. I refer to meditation more as a skill of energy management in our lives, than a spiritual practice.

So - lets skip the tour of the ancient temples in the Himalayan Mountains and see where it applies in our lives we live everyday. I am not the Dahli Lama. Although I do have a deep and sincere respect for him and his work in the world.
I had children to raise, home to maintain, jobs to work, and all the stress that went with it.

Why did I choose to meditate regularly in a day already filled? To arise early and to make sitting for twenty to thirty minutes a top priority, staying up late to study and to learn things many considered a waste of time and nonsense to the lifestyle I was living within?
The answer was simple to me, I wanted control over my life, my - Self. As I looked into the life I was dealing with, kids running around, wife flipping out from the stress of all the days demands, thinking of my jobs demands, what needed to be done around the house, “ the American dream ‘’ I was hit with an epiphany - this is insanity! That as soon as I stepped into the midst of that, the repetition of the day before would occur, as the day before that one, and the next days to come, until I burned out or died - same thing. In that epiphany I saw clearly that my day was filled to the brim with trying to meet everyone’s demands, calming out of control emotions, putting out the fires, and smoothing out the short circuiting.
The clinical definition of insanity ‘ doing the same things, the same way everyday, yet expecting a different result. ‘ Summation - DUH !!!

I surrendered in that moment - I cannot change all this - only myself. Simply put, my days were lived in reaction to all those around me, I needed to respond to my own needs, and I had no idea what they were. In all that ‘ busyness ‘ little was being accomplished. As I looked into my life I realized clearly, there was no calm there, probably never would be, I had to become the calm of response and abandon the chaos of reaction. ( re- action )
This is what I have and had in common to people that I have taught this to, they wanted escape from the chaos. Yet life is chaos, it is messy, it is emotional, and in Human Beings energies of chaos find calm and purpose, direction and refinement.
The word emotion comes from the phrase, energy in motion. Human Beings are managers of energy, great energies and powerful ones. Or they are the controlled puppets of others energies. Ponder this a moment and it becomes crystal clear to you in relation to your own lives.
But what is it exactly that binds us to those that are controlling us? Some say it is love, but the word love often masks need. Need is the seed of addiction. So what need is being served?
In my own life, it was the addiction to chaos and bedlam, even violent energy, much like the person that does not leave an abusive relationship, it is their addiction that keeps them there, no other reason. I was raised in such energy, so it was natural to seek the same in my own life. Like a baby born by a crack addict.

We live on energy, not food. Our bodies eat food and convert it to energy, what it cannot convert, it classifies as waste and dispels. So our true life sustainer is energy, not food. This is not a belief, it is science agreeing with scripture. So in my earlier referred to epiphany, I saw my addiction to the chaos I was walking into everyday. Again - DUH !

In a state of meditation you are tapped into an energy that is pure, much as when person is praying, with sincerity and love of God, asking nothing, just desiring to be in that feeling because you know intuitively that is healthy and renewing to do so.
The chaos of life is still going on outside your prayers, you just are not feeling it while in that state. This defines the term Sacred, a state of pure and renewing energy.
Meditation is the same, but more powerful in my opinion and experiences. I often say that prayer is the art of talking with God and meditation the art of listening to the answers.
Speaking from an energy perspective alone, meditation switches your diet from fast food to healthy power foods. But the results remain the same as the one of food, you are in control of whether you go home and make a healthy meal, or hit the drive through because it is easier and what you know to do. Inevitably we all choose our own health and wellbeing. But remember, no choice is also a choice.
I have taught hundreds across the decades, some stay with the healthier choices, some do not, but it is not my choice to make.

Twenty to thirty minutes a day of deep meditation gives your body the rest equivalent of eight hours of sleep physically. It is not and cannot be a substitute for sleep, but it rests your body as it did when you were an infant. It also begins to release the stress that you body has accumulated in its systems, and releases the minds tensions and confusions.
As we progress we will talk of these benefits more and in more depth. Address your concerns and experiences. I only speak from my own experiences here. I have meditated faithfully for over three decades. Over time I learned to remain in the state as I live my life daily. I do not sit in meditation as I did in the beginning. Human Beings operate best in motion, we are deigned for it. Yet meditation remains the base program for all other forms of enhancement we see today. It is the foundational practice for health related issues and emotional ones as well.
The Secret and Law of Attraction all recommend it as a base practice to achieve the state to operate these new mind sciences that are appearing because it creates the optimum state of mind from which to focus.
The ability’s and potentials of the Human mind are just beginning to be understood and utilized. Ancient texts from all religions and spiritual minds state that the inner world of a Human Being is a universe unto itself, and this is quite true. It is filled with the same wonders and awe inspiring landscapes as the one we are discovering thanks to new sciences and technologies.
Yet such an ancient process as meditation is amazingly simplest and direct way to access this inner world. So take your first ride into that Universe, sit back and enjoy the ride.

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« Reply #166 on: June 22, 2009, 10:59:37 »

Hello Everyone, smiley

This is a wonderful article in expressing the cultivation of our relationship with our Higher Self...in another's unique expression of a Unified idea ~

May it bless the hearers who are open and/or willing to hear it.

InJoy,

In Love's Spirit,

Julia



"Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says, "This is the real me," and when you have found that attitude, follow it." --William James



The Voice
By Maurice J. Turmel

In my New Age novel The Voice - A Mythological Guide to Lightworker Service, the Great Creator requests that selected "volunteers" be picked up from Earth by his personally trained instructors and transported to his cosmic education center on planet Rapture. Here, these students are exposed to what is essential to understand about the many challenges a Soul faces on the Earth plane, about connecting to their True Selves, and about activating that Divine Pulse within - The Voice!

Coming to terms with this vast array of personal growth issues is a must before these novices can be returned to Earth to assist their fellow humans in their growth challenges. Their training proves to be the necessary prelude for a much anticipated and desired Shift in Consciousness due for their home planet. This rigorous and demanding program prepares them for that purpose by guiding them through a process that reveals itself as the next wave for all humans - Conscious Evolution!

This is Conscious Evolution as I see it. It is conscious, because we are choosing not to be part of that Victim mentality anymore. It is conscious, because we realize we have to pace ourselves through our sorrows in order to be done with them. We are learning about healing and passing that on instead, which brings us to our thesis.

I believe that the Soul is eternal. I believe that we, as Souls, are here to learn lessons in order to grow. Growth is the main reason we are here on this Earth. I believe that our purpose in life is determined by Him and Us together, which then becomes our Life Imprint. And I believe that we have a choice, to live that purpose, or abandon it altogether.
 
In The Voice our characters learn that the human individual's common enemy is Fear. Fear is the greatest detractor to growth. It causes humans to retreat. These characters go through a cleansing process so they can heal any remaining impediments to their growth by dealing with that fear in all of its forms. They have chosen to evolve to their full potential and they have chosen this particular set of circumstances in which to do so.
 
How was this book written? As mentioned above, The Voice wrote this book through me. I've come to terms with that. As my Higher Self, He speaks through me whenever I invite Him, that is, when I open myself and access that part of me which is my Source. The Voice lives inside all of us and is able to surface as we embrace our Self and our Soul. He is there waiting for us to Choose to let Him through.

What does He, as The Voice, want this book to accomplish? He wants this story to reach You, to help You open to Your Divine Nature, to access and express Your capacity for Love and Forbearance. He wants you and I to reach out to others in the same vein, to help them open to their Divine Nature and so on. Why? So He can see Himself manifested in every one of us, as a gardener watching his plants come to full maturity. I believe He wants each of us to reach for and creatively express the fullest of our capabilities in this particular lifetime.

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« Reply #167 on: June 22, 2009, 19:15:45 »

Being in a sharing story mode, forgive in advance as I tend to follow the leading and not attend so much to why's, how come's or results of the prompting...

I am sharing a story I wrote here in the forums once upon a time ago ...

so, to lighten your thoughts to continue into the experience of moving between dimensions also known as ... ~

Your sister Julia has a bedtime story for you ~ lay quietly and rest, go with the rhythm of my Voice ~

This is the story of slaying dragons in another story telling kind of way, and yes, you get to be the hero!! wink smiley

http://www.ourultimatereality.com/forums/to-be-or-not-to-be-but-are-we-all-psychic-or-not-t580.0.html;msg3549#msg3549

Some may be 'expecting' something, I say expecting whatever shows up and relaxing, allowing the words to just flow through like the sound of a stream flowing into ... and the 'intention' will be clear ...

Sweet dreams my wonders All ~

Kiss and hugs too,

In Love's Spirit,

Julia
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« Reply #168 on: June 29, 2009, 11:01:39 »

I wish to thank Laura for bringing up the interesting and provactive 'subject' on archetypes that relate to our 'Sacred Contracts'.

Caroline Myss wrote a book on archetypes by this title. Here is a link that gives an interesting view of the four Universal archetypes she mentions that we are all born with, they Universally embody all of us. It is done in an interview fashion.

All Healing is done in the Present moment, I heard this many years ago and did not understand it at the time, now, I see it very differently and find for myself. This works!

For those who are so inclined...


http://www.aneasierlife.com/archetype.html

Love in Spirit,

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« Reply #169 on: June 30, 2009, 10:04:21 »

I saw this in the archetypes link and it is a wonderful article on transformation of Self;

http://www.aneasierlife.com/transformation.html

I can do it!! wink A little girl named Dora says that! Out of the mouth of babes...

InJoy this day Everyone,

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« Reply #170 on: June 30, 2009, 11:05:34 »

Thank you Julia,


I was aleways intrigued about these archetypes. I never had the time to look them up though. Also I need to understand the word "archetype" in its full significance.

The little I get is that by understanding our own archetype(s) we find it easier to navigate through life as our purpose becomes clear. According to Kabbalah each and every one of us has come into this physical Universe with a set of desires in need of correction. And I suppose that is the archetype at our origin. In other words each and every one of us has a 'certain mission' which can be found in discovering the archetype we are in our essence. When all these sets of desires are corrected and returned to its rightful owner, God, then all the separate pieces that we are get to finally be united as one ... the One original soul we were in the beginning.

In this context we can see that we have no right to judge anyone else, because we simply cannot know what their 'mission' or set of desires to be corrected are. In this respect everybody is exactly where they should be for that process to complete itself.

Correction in this context it doesn't mean at all that the desires are wrong or need to be curbed.
A desire is actually a spark of God's greatness and essence and how can anything be wrong with it?!?

And I think here is where most people go wrong, because it's been so drilled into us by religion that is something wrong and to such extent as to maim ourselves by getting read of desire altogether. When we understand that the spark of desire and enthusiasm comes from God we would see what a terrible crime is to 'curb' that desire.

!!! However "correction" means paying attention to where your consciousness  is when the desire is felt and the compulsion to act upon it comes.
If your consciousness is to "receive for Self alone" then you are in darkness. And that desire can turn into something very ugly.
If your consciousness sits in a place where you express your desire as a deep felt need to impart that joy with others to such an extent that the need of others come before your own then you are heading towards Light ...becoming like God - the force of Infinite Sharing.

Thus the desire is finally purified and returned to God in its pristine condition.
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« Reply #171 on: June 30, 2009, 16:17:04 »

Thank you Laura!

It's our turn to have an open dialogue, conversation here and I truly loved your Self expression here!! Namaste. I will bold and italicize my expressions to define them from your expressions here ~


Thank you Julia

The little I get is that by understanding our own archetype(s) we find it easier to navigate through life as our purpose becomes clear. According to Kabbalah each and every one of us has come into this physical Universe with a set of desires in need of correction. And I suppose that is the archetype at our origin. In other words each and every one of us has a 'certain mission' which can be found in discovering the archetype we are in our essence. When all these sets of desires are corrected and returned to its rightful owner, God, then all the separate pieces that we are get to finally be united as one ... the One original soul we were in the beginning.

Yes, by listening to Our Inner Voice or Guide. Which is how I view a 'correction' as, it is our Intuition as a navigational tool already within saying Psst!! Pay attention! ...to the left a little more to the right or steady as she goes... ding ding ding... target locked...(I sound like my grandson! lol!)

The 'mission possible' for me is the adventure we all chose to go on in our freewill decision to leave home so we could 'see the world' always with the intention of coming full circle on our journey 'back' to our home. And share our stories with our Parental Presence at the dinner table, set and waiting for our immenent return.


 
In this context we can see that we have no right to judge anyone else, because we simply cannot know what their 'mission' or set of desires to be corrected are. In this respect everybody is exactly where they should be for that process to complete itself.

I agree. It's like saying don't go on that ride, it will kill you! (believing this makes this adventure a 'mission impossible'). The same ONE that is leading me is leading all other parts of ITSELF. This has helped me greatly when I see absolute chaos all around me and senseless (to me) killing and such things.

This way of thinking makes one want to control their environment and not such live in the unknown. This way can greatly inhibit ones sense of the newness of each moment...wanting predictability and certain outcomes while screaming how boring life is! It is funny yet sad in the same moment, like the two faces of Theatre...

Everything is going according to a Divine Plan...


Correction in this context it doesn't mean at all that the desires are wrong or need to be curbed.
A desire is actually a spark of God's greatness and essence and how can anything be wrong with it?!?

Yes, including what moves us to Pray. Our prayers are Divine in the asking led by God's Voice, revealing that we are always in all ways Divinely Guarded, Guided and Protected. How could IT be otherwise unless we believe the illusion more. I can affirm this just by observing my life this far and how my many prayers have been answered already. We are never denied answer, we are asked to be patient and open to surprise. Source~God is the Element of Surprise or that which is Unknown...


And I think here is where most people go wrong, because it's been so drilled into us by religion that is something wrong and to such extent as to maim ourselves by getting read of desire altogether. When we understand that the spark of desire and enthusiasm comes from God we would see what a terrible crime is to 'curb' that desire.

Indeed, and this includes every single 'religious and other spiritual path of experiencing on this planet'. Deeply ingrained. Lulled into a deep state of unconsciousness, all the while being held in the arms of the 'GOD' who has never let go of us, no matter what we think we are seeing in our 'dreams' or nightmares...

!!! However "correction" means paying attention to where your consciousness  is when the desire is felt and the compulsion to act upon it comes.

Psst! Follow me, me being Ones own Voice, One with the 'Father', only heard when away from the 'noise' of the crowds...the Voice is gentle, soft, tender and Loving. Peaceful

If your consciousness is to "receive for Self alone" then you are in darkness. And that desire can turn into something very ugly.

This is the very indicator of which mind is in charge. The one that believes it is running away from home or the One who knows It is having an adventure and Calling Home to check in all the 'time'.

If your consciousness sits in a place where you express your desire as a deep felt need to impart that joy with others to such an extent that the need of others come before your own then you are heading towards Light ...becoming like God - the force of Infinite Sharing.

Thus the desire is finally purified and returned to God in its pristine condition.

Yes! I call this sitting in Ones Parents Lap and Being told a story, while sharing ours with all the characters, feelings, sounds, visuals and on and on...


Hey Laura, I'm thirsty, let's go try that Rosewater Lemonade over there... sounds interesting... before going on our way...

I truly InJoy sharing Presence with you Laura,

Until our next rest spot, we'll remain in our God Spot adventuring together.

InJoy this day,

Love in Spirit,


Julia cool

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« Reply #172 on: June 30, 2009, 20:16:40 »

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Indeed Julia

There is no more rewarding thing than really truly knowing oneself.

Enjoying this journey in truth ... along with you and anyone else.
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« Reply #173 on: July 01, 2009, 15:57:55 »

There is no more rewarding thing than really truly knowing oneself.

But who are you? For if your answer is "a spiritual being" or "an individual aspect of the Divine" then that's everybody. Who are you as an individual though?
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« Reply #174 on: July 01, 2009, 23:37:34 »

Dear Louis,


Well at present I am the least concerned with who am I.

I am more into living who I am to the most supreme truth up to and loyalty to Divine Self. It just feels like a mission.. with clues at all steps, leading me more and more to the treasure (which is the total manifestation of the being that I am at the core in its true powers).
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« Reply #175 on: July 02, 2009, 15:03:29 »

Very well my Love
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« Reply #176 on: July 02, 2009, 15:18:15 »


Is guess... is becoming more and more clear the unique perspective that I'm meant to discern, everything for me is in a whirlwind rush and at the same time like the calm in the middle of the eye storm. All my attention and focus to keep in the eye while the storm may go any place ...

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« Reply #177 on: July 03, 2009, 17:02:19 »

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« Reply #178 on: July 12, 2009, 01:30:44 »

Came in awhile ago and feeling to do posting now before the rebuilding and renewal of this night, tomorrow is seemingly filling with things to do around the house and in the hood so...

A horn honked in my drive as I was finishing my response to Laura here in another post earlier...my beloved friend and sister had called and asked me to cut her husband's hair this evening per his request. So, off I go...

I have openly shared what is transpiring in my life thoughout my time here in this forum. I was Divinely asked to be willing to be open to and receive the opportunity to come forth and show up from seclusion and I said, sure, why not?  Be an Open Living and As I go written book... I am in the writing...

I have shared that my friend's husband is in the process of transitioning or transforming his Energy Being, I shared with her months ago that while I did not know the hour, I did sense that I was to have a conversation with her husband whom seemed to be fighting against his current experience. And she and I and all around him observing his fear by the evidence of fear based behaviour.

Alot has changed in my life and I see this may seem to some others viewing my comments as being arrogant. I have to smile at this as I took the liberty to share some of the conversations taking place here recently here in the forums with her, which is open to public Universal viewing... she laughed because she hangs out with me as I her. She knows my manner of speech and mannerisms. I am a very soft spoken voiced person. I do not yell nor raise my voice as a norm. I sense that it may appear to some that I am doing this. Not so. I just don't take others as seriously as I once did when I took myself way to seriously. As I have lightened up so has my views of observing the illusion...and I do feel Love expanding my view...

So this evening it happened, the conversation that is... very interesting to be in the presence of one in transition. The second time for me in this past year. And I notice that when one is at this point as shown to me in my life experience, they have a radiance about them. Look into their eyes and you will see IT clearly looking straight at you. My friend's husband died on his living room floor and had to be revived by the Fire Department and Paramedics a few years ago. Something happened to him and he has been trying to share it with me since last year yet stopping at a certain point and my friend also telling him to stop. I said, let him say it. It will assist him in making peace and allowing for his peaceful transfer.

He mentioned being a white room with angels and relations that have transformed. And he heard his guides saying he had to come back because he had unfinished business. He fought with this and this is what led him to drink out of control like he has and becoming very beligerent and screaming constantly at his family. They were at their wits end with him. I was sad to hear this and yet I have been deeply blessed by this experience.

His demeanor tonight was very very different. He is making his peace and I feel it. We had a wonderful conversation and I said after he shared his white room experience with me again tonight, 'do you see that you were still 'alive' without being in your body?' And he paused, looked straight into my eyes and said, yes. I said because you don't die, you just drop the illusion of whom you think you are by identifying with the characters and props of the material world and you were allowed to see this before doing what this illusionary world calls death or dying...you were allowed to experience your Authentic Self, Eternal and Alive without form.

We spoke of the economy, his craw under his nail and I shared that I was removed from it as an answer to a prayer I made at nineteen and resounded throughout my life experience here. I had reached the end of my experience as I knew it here and wanted the real deal. This stream is endless and nothing in this world affects this stream. If I found a way to connect to IT then why wouldn't I share it? Or offer it to whomever chooses to receive it for themself?

All we are asked to do is share. The only 'thing' that is Eternal is our Relationship(s). The rest is mere child's play. Don't take it so seriously nor your role or roles you are playing with here. It's not who you really are. You are so much more than this.

On that note, I am off to Sweet Dreams and may all be blessed in kind.

InJoy the Peace of this night,

Love in Spirit,

Julia
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« Reply #179 on: July 16, 2009, 20:23:55 »

Lots of good stuff coming into the ebox. I InJoy sharing, passing it on as one never knows when something may click with another and make their life much more free and Lighten ones load knowing we are all in this together.

I know I have gone on benders about classifying and separating ones from 'others', forgive in advance yet I have a tender spot for ones who get bullied, left out or behind because they do not fit into what another feels is acceptable. Perhaps it is my pollyanna view that there is room for all...

I really InJoyed this article and so I release it to bless all others. Be free to be who you are, black, white, yellow, red, brown, veggie eater, meat eater, whatever eater, what ever way a Spiritual language speaks to you. All the colors of One rainbow...

Underneath it all or in the deepest part of all lies our Love Note 'from' home where we all come from.

United in One God of All.

Love in Divine Spirit,

Julia


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Observing Evolution
Allowing Others To Walk Their Paths

Watching a loved one or a peer traverse a path littered with stumbling blocks can be immensely painful. We instinctively want to guide them toward a safer track and share with them the wisdom we have acquired through experience. Yet all human beings have the right to carve their own paths without being unduly influenced by outside interference. To deny them that right is to deny them enlightenment, as true insight cannot be conveyed in lectures. Rather, each individual must earn independence and illumination by making decisions and reflecting upon the consequences of each choice. In allowing others to walk their paths freely, you honor their right to express their humanity in whatever way they see fit. Though you may not agree with or identify with their choices, understand that each person must learn in their own way and at their own pace.

The events and circumstances that shape our lives are unique because each of us is unique. What touches one person deeply may do nothing more than irritate or confound another. Therefore, each of us is drawn to different paths葉he paths that will have the most profound effects on our personal evolution. If you feel compelled to intervene when watching another human being make their way slowly and painfully down a difficult path, try to empathize with their need to grow autonomous and make their own way in the world. Should this person ask for your aid, give it freely. You can even tell them about your path or offer advice in a conscious loving way. Otherwise, give them the space they need to make their own mistakes, to enjoy the fruits of their labors, to revel in their triumphs, and to discover their own truths.

The temptation to direct the paths of others is a creature of many origins. Overactive egos can convince us that ours is the one true path or awaken a craving for control within us. But each person is entitled to seek out their path leading from the darkness into the light. When we celebrate those paths and encourage the people navigating them, we not only enjoy the privilege of watching others grow we also reinforce our dedication to diversity, independence, and individuality.

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