Dearest Julia
You said
"Freedom thank you for correcting me and being honest about being confused by me, yet I personally do not feel it justifies one calling another mentally ill as this is something then that we can say each say about one another when we do not like something or the way something is said. I find name calling to be labeling and a distraction and a cop out from the real issue "
You do not need to thank me for correcting you for I was not correcting you at all.
I was just mentioning that Knucklebrain was Kevin. Also, I wasn't confused by you personally, I was confused because I hadnt read all of pages 15,16 and 17.... cos I was just skimming through the posts, not reading them properly, I was just focussing on Kevin and only Kevin. I wanted him to find a forum that prefers what he said he prefers.
Now that I have come back and read everything at least 3 times over, I am shocked and appalled at the name calling.

DH is quite correct in his comments.
I am really sorry if I came across all wrong

, Julia, but I was concentrating only on Kevin's dilemma and completely missed all the other stuff.
Anyway, I am always confusing myself, about everything.
Lots of love to you Julia

and I love your posting style - a true free spirit .
