Whoa there, shall we STOP for a minute here? Just hold on for a second everyone! Can we rewind for a moment here?
Adonis G, that 'sum1' was me. I am willing to own up to what I share. You can say it too. I really do not get my knickers in a twist over these things.
I am sharing from a 'world' that many never have the opportunity to see from behind the chair. You all go and get your hair cut by someone in a salon or hair cutting place yes? Or do it yourself whatever. However, I worked in this industry in upscale salons in L.A. where you go to Beverly Hills and you rub shoulders with the 'beautiful' people and see alot that many never do and since I am a certified and licensed Cosmetologist or Beautician my license is transferable and I moved around alot so you see alot of this idea everywhere you go. It's the SAME Story folks. Truth.
And I will say this, these physically 'beautiful' people are some of the most insecure people you will ever meet. I was surrounded by and had been around them for years. It is amazing what lengths one will go to to hold their throne of worship upon themselves. And very very sad.
If another 'beautiful' one walked in and drew any attention away from the other, you immediately would feel their Energy change and see it in their eyes and their body language. Truth. And then their 'voice' would change in tone. Why? Because no matter if 100 people doted on them and told them how 'beautiful' physically they were, that one moment of someone else's beauty being appreciated and taking the attention away from them would erase their happiness, it literally ruined their day.
It really was about what they saw when they looked in the mirror. I saw this over and over again. Their eyes became very critical and they would look the other up and down like what do they have that I haven't got mentality. And the other would do the same thing or they would enjoy making the other feel inferior. Wow! What a total waste of time folks. Really.
I learned early on to leave the make believe world there and get back to reality with deep appreciation for the authentic ones in my life. Not necessarily a seen beauty by worldly standards but a felt one.
It is in the MIND. I am 100% with Adrian on this you guys. Those whom are popular in school usually do not do very well once out of school. Truth. Yes, there are studies which reveal this. Why?
Because in school they do not have to do much of anything really to win the appraisal of others whom are in a deeply insecure state of their experience as well. Thier looks pave their way. So, once they get outside of their small environment and find it is alot bigger environment than school where there are alot of others whom are beautiful and popular as well guess what? They struggle with low self esteem.
The ones whom were not popular and survive the 'humiliation' of school due to being ugly? No, just different in looks and personality become ones of developed higher self esteem. Why? Because since their physical looks did not earn them the approval of others they developed more inner traits and other skills, they found things they loved to do to feel a sense of worth. Now what usually not always, happens is that as their Inner traits are built up, they exude a beauty of growing confidence that is undefinable by the worlds standards.
They stand out because they have learned from experience to not be focused on outer reasons and opinions of others to appreciate themselves. It's natural and first nature to them now. They usually grow into well rounded people who do not let their found beauty go to their heads. And compassion becomes their very nature because they've been there and done that.
There are many beautiful people who sit home alone more than you realize for the reasons of ones being intimidated by their looks so they never get asked out and ones being put off by their personalities which are so needy for being validated that they cannot handle the drain. Many reasons.
Yes, your thoughts are completely focused on your looks right now Adonis G because you are still in an environment surrounded by others whom are also whether they outwardly express it or not they are as insecure as the rest of you. Many just don't let on.
Looking back for a moment and now here with you and saying yes. Get off your But's, your reasons to keep you from living to your fullest abilities. Self sabotage, I want to but, I want to but, the but's that keep you isolated from living your life. Your gift is your life. You've a purpose, a wonderful contribution to give to the world here, or you would not be here.
Okay, your body is being a challenge right now. You're not the only one with a challenge my brother.This sort of experience is what allowed one's with similar challenges to find some way, somehow to not remain in a feel sorry for myself and I'm so miserable state, to make changes to this world for the benefit of humanity.
Do you think looks have anything to do with this? What if they stopped because they didn't have the right color eyes, hair, skin, body shape? Where would we be right now? You Adonis G and Louis, may be here to change the course of this world in a very unique way, your way and the world is just waiting for you to decide to get moving and get OFF your BUT's, self defeating behaviours.
You both are very very smart and I may sound harsh, not my intention truly, I say this with much Love as my Intention.
No one will ever be able to tell you enough how 'beautiful' you are. It would never really matter I assure you because unless you see it and know IT yourself, InSide, you will never experience IT outside. Truth.
Go on, be mad at me, I can take it,
Love you guys,
Julia
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