Hello Everyone participating in yet another expanding discussion,

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I am enjoying the wonderful expressions here. This is honest communication at its Highest. Talker. Beautifully stated. Thank you for sharing. Your Essence is Heartfelt. As is with all others here.
Forgive in advance, I feel it flowing...
Posted on: Yesterday at 11:13:10Posted by: melody
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Hello all,
I guess I looked at “transmuting” from a women’s point of view. With women often when something bugs them, they talk about it constantly trying to resolve it through the talking and the feedback they receive. As soon as the problem has been successfully resolved, they either stop talking about it (and move to the next issue ) or mention it only occasionally.
Shall we look at this from an earthly perspective and move beyond this to an all encompassing Knowing?
As a projection of being 'woman' or a feminine aspect in this earthly projection, I 'see' this 'point of view'. One aspect of an all encompassing Energy of One. I spent my 'early' twenties and on into my thirties observing and participating from this angle with my 'girlfriends' or sisters over many glasses of wine and sometimes 'dirty' martinis. You know, Loose Lips sink Ships.

I think we could take a look at what we would consider successfully resolved. As in not repeating the behavior. That's what defines a resurrection.
I began to sense an imbalance in this way of perceiving by stepping back and listening and not so much participating in the discussions. I 'learned' alot. Why? I asked to be shown to see with the Eyes of Knowing and Being One with My God.
The doors then opened to my being openly exposed to aspects of male energy. The male energies were also wanting the 'same things' (complete, acceptance) but expressed in a different way. No one was communicating Honestly.
I was being made aware of Honest Communication and I will say, that if one is considered as desirable in this picture based on the physical aspects, it translates into sexual desire, one can then decide if this is what one desires by expressing it to another. Sift and Sort. Discern the Authenticity, the authentic gold here. It is here if we are willing to be it.
Hence my statements shared with Darrell in the 'Childcare' thread in this forum. I once held an imbalanced view. I found that men did not wish to be 'friends' with me. They wanted to fuck. This was their way of expressing Love as they knew it. Is it just men? No. They are feeding off collective energies. This is what has been defined in the Collective Ego Consciousness as Male. That's just what they are suppose to do. They're men. Well, bullshit! Women like to play with their bodies also. We tend to use our bodies as weapons. Just look at what 'advertising' is being used to sell. Has anyone heard the term, 'Sex Sells'?
We stop talking about it because we do not know how to honestly communicate. We just put it on the shelf however, it permeates in our expressions if we are out of touch with the cause of these 'issues'.
What I have found, is that I being naturally what could be defined in this reality, a 'Wild Woman Nature', I can only relate to my mate or Wild Man Nature. Hence the underlying sense of acceptance. It only comes from acceptance as One with One in Spirit, Mind and then Body.
I was desiring my male aspects to join and balance. It came. Pardon the expression.

Now I see this is different with men. They only start talking about a problem once they resolve it. And then men make it into an experience.
That' just it. It isn't different with 'men'. Just 'stated' differently. Men hear what a woman is expressing. They have been given a nother approach. Men come along side by side and that is what trips women up. We are too busy looking at the outer 'hunky' shell and going on all sorts of fantasies while 'playing' it cool. Men do the same thing. Then 'Men' are upfront and in your face and believe me they are listening. I know this well. Why? Because my Inner Radar is what translates or transforms this 'information'. That's what anyone can connect to. We as 'women' are 'men' in mirroring. It looks the opposite. Look into a mirror. Your right is on the left and vice versa. Stop looking at the mirror and step through it. You will 'see' it completely from this view. Complete.
The 'Secret' which it isn't is in bringing it all together into one place. Completion. We have heard it said, in books, in songs and movies and all forms of expressing the Universal 'Desire' to be One with our One.
I can relate to the 'male energy aspects' because I am all encompassing as I am attuned to my Source of All. We are One and the Same. Lay aside the male and female separated aspects and enjoy the Union of being One. One breath in motion.
Does this mean we are to have an orgy? No. Purity is defined in this essence. The 'door' narrows. The menu becomes refined naturally. Why? Because you know what you desire and it aligns in Spirit, Mind and Body.
It means aligning with the One Energy. You Know because only One Who Knows as You Know can Align with the Energy. And then All are United within this Energy. There is no competion. It doesn't exist among other 'feminine or male' aspects of OneSelf. It is mutual Respect, Honor and Divine Sexing of All Attributes (that is creation).
In a Course In Miracles, it is called the Holy Union. It takes place with One and then it flows into All expressions. Not a hand over here, foot over there. That's ego mind at work. Bring it All into One. Everything becomes Clear or Clarity. You stand looking straight into the Eyes of Love, because that is the Energy you are Projecting from. Searching ceases. Does this help?
It is good to keep these differences in perspective.
I have found it is 'good' to remove the barriers (differences) to be able to connect to Love without conditions. You smoke? You drink? You eat meat? You had plastic surgery to enlarge whatever part of you that you 'see' lacking? You believe what!? And on and on it goes. The more we give weight to this thinking we remain attached to the physical aspects. Remove the physical first. Listen and be Led and then you will naturally be Aligned and Know 'what to do' in every moment. That is what Jesus meant when he stated that we should remove the 'physical' blocks to our True Authentic Nature. What you eat, does not do anything to you unless you allow your body to be the boss. It is the Mind that tells the body what to experience. Does this mean you will continue to do these things? Choice. You are not 'addicted' to anything. You are a powerful Being that makes choices based on the experience you desire in your Mind to have. You do not have 'needs'.
This is what can allow ones Mind to create the experience of Soul Spirit, Mind Body. Sex? Yes. As an expression of an experience of bringing (gathering oneself into One) the all encompassing Alignment into One. Not OOh Baby I feel good type of empty firecracker explosion.
Choose the Deep Fire that never extinguishes. As a Buddhist Monk once shared, "I am coming all the time." Well said my Brother. Can you handle this? Ask yourself what it is you are truly seeking to know.
Why Seek when It is Right here, Right Now. We will Know when we are willing to be Honest.
Darrell, Yes. It is for the value of expressing what many hide within in the Silent refusal to be Known. We speak from the position of being kept Open by our Awakened State via painful at the 'time'. We never went to sleep. I love you Darrel for your Childlike Honesty. That is why I hear you.

Women? Men? We are all these things within One Energy Source of All Origin. Yes. There has been an imbalance but it is being Aligned by the Beings who 'see' beyond this earthyly dimension. That is what is streaming though here.
Melody, I am accepted by Adrian, Darrel and Talker and Baki and 'other' male energies because I am One with them. They know well, that Julia speaks her own mind and I have never been nor ever will be a conformist to anyone or anything. I can disagree only with the understanding that I have yet to align as they in this particular aspect.
I am One with these my 'Brothers' and they are One with me as their 'Sister. We are One and the same. This is true for all. It's only when we awaken to this understanding.
Love WithIn Divine Spirit,
Julia