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« Reply #15 on: November 30, 2008, 06:41:16 »

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I have no problem with letting the Source do it through me. It will benefit humanity because people would see that I have not limitations. If I say I will heal you then they will believe in me. Who's going to believe that someone who is balding can heal them? I tried to tell a friend if mine "who was talking about placebos" that its all in the mind and you can tell yourself to be healed and you would be healed. I am anti drugs (Medicine) and he is a EMT. He said to me "If that is true then why don't you just tell your hair follicles to grow". He has NO FAITH in what I was saying judging by my appearance.

This is personal and I am telling everyone on here my deepest problem. This is because I believe that you can help me but I am still unclear as to what I am supposed to do. What do I say to "the Farther within" so that the source would know how to manifest me? I have said to myself "I have the perfect image now" many times and that didn't work by its self.

If you had to change your appearance for what ever reason how would you do it?

Thank you and I hope your news letter helps me understand how to do accomplish what I need.
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« Reply #16 on: November 30, 2008, 09:22:22 »

Dear Wave
Adrian's latest newsletter is right. Read it very carefully and slowly and absorb what ye said.

For a start, I think u already know that - and this is the most important part that we all have to REALize...   what you resist - persists. You are really clever but u keep focusing on what u dont want..which is balding. You keep thinking of that. Change your thoughts , as I think Laura said. Think of Hair. In fact, maybe stop thinking of your hair situation altogether.

If you keep thinking, and worrying (fear) about balding, you will attract what u dont want.

I want to help you to really get it.
If you keep thinking about what u dont want, u will get what u dont want. You have told us honestly about your worst fear.
Turn it around and just never ever think about it again. Adrian has told us to not think about what you dont want. I understand u dont want balding. So, make it a thing to never ever think of yr hair. Dont look in the mirror. Ignore it. You told me, in a post , a lttle while ago. So u understand the principle of this.

What u resist , you are giving it power!
Dont resist... go with the flow. Totally ignore what u dont want ( which is balding).
Just imagine everything perfect, ignore ... forget... hair.

Live your life as if you had your perfect hair and body,
Live  'as if'' .. and ,the thing is... when u forget to waste time worrying, and your mind is on other stuff, you may see your hair grow thicker again. 

Or ... you may see that it was not such a problem after all.
And, if jesus was bald, no-one would care. Most people are too busy worrying about themselves...

Julia and Laura are very helpful , I find. I think they could also help ya! afro

Adrian did say great stuff.. read the newsletter again.

I like the mirror part. I just look in the mirror if I have to , (like brushing teeth..wotever)

I always smile at myself in the mirror, and say love and blessings to the universe, it will come back to me 10 times, and that will vibrate out a thousand times to everyone.
Every smile helps, even smiling to oneself. cos we are all one. The power of love! cool cheesy
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« Reply #17 on: November 30, 2008, 13:22:28 »

Dear Wavepsychic,

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I have no problem with letting the Source do it through me. It will benefit humanity because people would see that I have not limitations. If I say I will heal you then they will believe in me. Who's going to believe that someone who is balding can heal them? I tried to tell a friend if mine "who was talking about placebos" that its all in the mind and you can tell yourself to be healed and you would be healed. I am anti drugs (Medicine) and he is a EMT. He said to me "If that is true then why don't you just tell your hair follicles to grow". He has NO FAITH in what I was saying judging by my appearance.

This is personal and I am telling everyone on here my deepest problem. This is because I believe that you can help me but I am still unclear as to what I am supposed to do. What do I say to "the Farther within" so that the source would know how to manifest me? I have said to myself "I have the perfect image now" many times and that didn't work by its self.

If you had to change your appearance for what ever reason how would you do it?

Thank you and I hope your news letter helps me understand how to do accomplish what I need.


Freedom's reply to you is absolutely correct, and show a high level of understanding on this issue.

You simply need to think about this more.

I realise that many people are materialistic etc still - that is changing - but you don'y have to turn up on the streets looking like some Guru from India complete with beard, and robes and flowers before people will take you seriously.

People will take you seriously for who you are, not what you claim to represent. I know of many "guru" types who make sure they are widely seen, because it impresses people in the West, yet I know what many of them "teach" is fundamentally wrong, self-serving, and paradoxically egotistical.

Now let me say right away that my comments by no means apply to all people who call themselves "guru's" by any means - I am simply stating my experience, that embodies the point I am making.

No one could say Jesus looked impressive  - whatever he looked like - we know he was very humble in all things - yet his Energy, humility, and teachings spoke for themselves, and he attracted people far and wide - people who had never seen him before.

People on that level, have around them a very high vibration of Energy, Light, which people know deep within - people who are resonating towards that frequency recognise for what it is.

I must add that almost no one knows what I look like. I have nothing to hide at all - to the contrary - but this is intentional because I wish only my words to speak to people - to speak to their Inner Being where the truth is always recognised.

Often people email me and ask for a photo. When I ask why they say something like "because you are my guru, and it is our system to make a guru a focal centre". I send a message back thanking them for their kind thoughts, but tell them that I cannot provide a photo because I wish the focal point to be my words.

As for your hair concern.

As Freedom correctly mentioned - you are clearly very self-conscious about it, and see it as a major issue - and that is precisely why it is a major issue and will continue to be while you consider it to be such.

Regardless of whether you hair can grow back - which it can because hair loss is not part of your blueprint - or anyone's blueprint - why does it bother you so much?

All the males in my family, my father, his father and so on all lost their hair in their 20's. My Grandfather while serving during World War I, and my Father while serving in World War II.  But I never heard them complain about it - in fact before they went to a dinner at a restaurant etc, while their wives would get ready, they would make jokes about going to have their heads polished etc Smiley

They also all wear glasses as do my whole family except myself and three sons who understand these matters. I only say this to show that I follow my own example when I say that my eyesight is perfect, and my hair grows so thickly the hairdresser charges extra - and it is still dark brown at 52.

Now most sons would have noticed the family "model" and expected to lose hair - as my brother did - or lose eyesight which my brother and sister did and so on - but I threw that model out when I was around 10 years, 2 years after throwing the Christian religion model out - as well as just about everything else and created a new one based upon maintaining true to my God-given "blueprint".

And in earlier years when I attended meetings, while everyone else rolled up in smart dress suits and tie, and polished shoes - and oh yes the matching brief case - and later the matching PDA and mobile - now Blackerry's of course - I rolled up in jeans, sweatshirt and my $10 trainers -sneakers over your way I think you call them - and with a pen in my jeans pocket which I never used anyway. I never even took any notes with me. But I always got what I wanted every time because they could not find a way to deny it. So I just left leaving them sitting there wondering what they had just agreed to and why Smiley

But the point I am making is this - it is not the physical shell that makes you who you are or of how much service you can be to humanity.

The fact that you are here, as with everyone, means you already recognise your "destiny" at some level - or your Higher Self and therefore Subconscious Mind does - and you are clearly talking to people about the Law of Attraction - which is great. If they are not resonating with you never attempt to make them believe you, or get upset because they don't and think you are some kind of airy fairy new age, whatever - thousands of people who are sent my newsletters by others or find my website think I am all those things and a whole lot more, including half my family - not my sons who have a very high level of understanding. The other half of my family thinks exactly the opposite and read my newsletters, books and so on like many others.

If people are receptive then help them as much as you feel able to, if they are not forget it.

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink and neither should you try.

Also look at this statement you made of your friend:

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He has NO FAITH in what I was saying judging by my appearance.

The truth is that you have no Faith, in yourself, because you are judging your own abilities in the context of your own perceived appearance.

There is nothing you can "say" to Source, God, "Father" within you, because Source does not recognise or respond to human words - which is why the prayer used in churches has no effect.

Connecting with Source within is not accomplished on a physical level, it can only be accomplished on a Spiritual level, through the one common Principle - Mind.

We approach God by Who we Are, not "what" we think we are, what we would like to be or what we look for.

Spiritual Evolution is an Experiential process, not an academic process, or a theological process.

Even then primary steps include:

1. Realisation of "God" within - which means in absolute terms - not just a tacit acceptance.

2. The absolute assimilation of the Oneness of All in Creation and Our Relationship to that Oneness. Such a person is completely incapable of harming even the most microscopic life form, because that person understands his or her relationship to that life form, and the consequences to progress of rejecting it.

3. Unconditional Love - meaning Unconditional. This is not sentimental demonstrations of love, or even matrimonial love - Unconditional Love transcends those Earthly varieties. Unconditional Love is the most powerful Force in the Universe - the Fabric of the Universe, and your evolution is proportional to your ability to manifest that Love.

As for your question:

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If you had to change your appearance for what ever reason how would you do it?

I cannot even imagine such a circumstance, because it is not important to me, and neither therefore does is it relevant to my services such as they are.

Assuming the question was not rhetorical, which I assume it was not - then, as I mentioned before, you need to be that change because their is only Now, and therefore you cannot "do" anything, and you most certainly can never "try" anything.

In addition, all change must occur as Source, not as you, because what you think of as "you" with thinning hair, is not you.

The Paradox is the more you come to resonate with that truth, and Source, the less the things you want to manifest anyway.

Anyone wanting to "manifest" something material still has not "got" it.  The only reason I write about manifestation and so on, is firstly because it is a step to healing and health, and secondly most people must experience these physical things in order to progress.

But here is something big to keep in Mind.

The only reason the Astral Planes exist is because they have been created by the Minds of billions humans, as well as ET's and vast array of other Beings including those of the single Elements like "fairies" and so on.  Astral residents are still very materially Minded, and believe therefore that "Earth" is reality. Because in the Astral everything you desire manifests instantly, because "time" and "space" do not exert their influence, they have simply recreated everything they lived for on Earth, without any of the things they disliked - like "work", "offices" "money" and so on.  So when people transition their they think it is "paradise" or "heaven", never think to question it, and simply become lost in the illusion. They do the same things as on Earth, deceased musicians still give concerts, people who had a familiar skill still use it, but to give away out of pleasure since there is no need for "money".  They just can't see beyond that loop. When they do the upper Astral becomes the new focus. Although still human made it represents the best and most beautiful aspects of Forests, mountains and scenery of all types, flowers with fragrancy's beyond the ability of human sense of smell, many vivid colours which cannot be described because their is no physical equivalent on Earth, butterfly's and so on. And as we travel inwards, the more "solid" and "real" it becomes, because as vibration increases, the "Ether" becomes more refined so it is like comparing the old CRT 623 line first colour TV sets, wit the very latest flat screen HD TV, except the contrast is much, much greater.

Anyway - I hope that puts things in a better perspective for you. The state of your hair is not something you should be concerning yourself with in the grand scheme of things.

In Love and Light,

Adrian.











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« Reply #18 on: November 30, 2008, 21:46:28 »

Hi Freedom

Thank you very much for taking the time to help me but my situation isn't that simple. I shall not go into details because I am redoing my positive thinking all over again.


Dont look in the mirror. Ignore it. You told me, in a post , a lttle while ago. So u understand the principle of this.

I like the mirror part. I just look in the mirror if I have to , (like brushing teeth..wotever)

You and Adrian keep telling me not to look in the mirror but that is impossible. Sometimes when I am trying to feel like the new me I perceive the cells instead of projecting the new feeling. I don't need to look in the Mirror to brush my teeth but I DO to put Gel in my hair because it makes me look a little better. How can I attract a full head of hair while trying to gel a "comb over" effect? Also if I never look in the mirror then how do I know that it grew back or not? Ignorance is not Success.

Live your life as if you had your perfect hair and body,
Live  'as if'' .. and ,the thing is... when u forget to waste time worrying, and your mind is on other stuff, you may see your hair grow thicker again.

Their are times when I just let it all go so that it regrows and that doesn't work. After a few months of not worrying about it nothing happens. So that didn't work by itself.

I have posted a picture and for all YOU know its me. My faith in the minds of all of you on here is infinite.
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« Reply #19 on: November 30, 2008, 21:53:31 »


There is nothing you can "say" to Source, God, "Father" within you, because Source does not recognise or respond to human words - which is why the prayer used in churches has no effect.


Maybe some prayers used in churches have no effect, but intimate personal prayers do. The Source has created us, he created us in his own image, he has an intimate knowledge of us, he is omnipresent and all encompassing, and he understands us in all of our expressions, even words, and regardless of the language used. Maybe he understands us telepathically, maybe it is the intention, emotion or the idea behind the spoken words that communicates to him, but he surely understands those words. I have Christian friends who claim that Christian prayer is very effective, and has been effective in their lives. They might feel at a complete loss. Then they would pray and ask God for guidance, and all of the sudden they would feel the answer inside, they call it "God gave them an answer". They would have an overpowering feeling of how to proceed and that everything would be all right. They told me it is not even necesary to get into a meditative state, simply talk to God internally with all the cincerity and from the center of yourself, and that God answers.

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« Reply #20 on: November 30, 2008, 22:07:03 »

Hi Melody and All ~ smiley


There is nothing you can "say" to Source, God, "Father" within you, because Source does not recognise or respond to human words - which is why the prayer used in churches has no effect.

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"God gave them an answer". They would have an overpowering feeling of how to proceed and that everything would be all right. They told me it is not even necesary to get into a meditative state, simply talk to God internally with all the cincerity and from the center of yourself, and that God answers.



Very well stated. I will say that meditative state is defined in many ways. You simply commune with God all day long. Even in conversation with another, God is Present. You allow God to Be Present in every area of your life.

I call it making God your Intimate Life Partner.

Love in Divine Spirit,

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P.S. Louis ~ Why ya gotta worry so much Huh? See? You are receiving loving comments here. Next we will be calling you a show off! wink cool

As always, just playing with you. ~ Love you Wave ~ Julia
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« Reply #21 on: November 30, 2008, 22:39:56 »

P.S. Louis ~ Why ya gotta worry so much Huh? See? You are receiving loving comments here. Next we will be calling you a show off! wink cool

As always, just playing with you. ~ Love you Wave ~ Julia

I don't mean to worry. Lets just say I come to realize that I don't have what I wanted yet and have to find a different way to get it. So I ask Adrian... Who else?
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« Reply #22 on: December 01, 2008, 03:21:01 »

Dear Wavepsychic,

Hi Freedom

Thank you very much for taking the time to help me but my situation isn't that simple. I shall not go into details because I am redoing my positive thinking all over again.


Dont look in the mirror. Ignore it. You told me, in a post , a lttle while ago. So u understand the principle of this.

I like the mirror part. I just look in the mirror if I have to , (like brushing teeth..wotever)

You and Adrian keep telling me not to look in the mirror but that is impossible. Sometimes when I am trying to feel like the new me I perceive the cells instead of projecting the new feeling. I don't need to look in the Mirror to brush my teeth but I DO to put Gel in my hair because it makes me look a little better. How can I attract a full head of hair while trying to gel a "comb over" effect? Also if I never look in the mirror then how do I know that it grew back or not? Ignorance is not Success.

Live your life as if you had your perfect hair and body,
Live  'as if'' .. and ,the thing is... when u forget to waste time worrying, and your mind is on other stuff, you may see your hair grow thicker again.

Their are times when I just let it all go so that it regrows and that doesn't work. After a few months of not worrying about it nothing happens. So that didn't work by itself.

I have posted a picture and for all YOU know its me. My faith in the minds of all of you on here is infinite.


I can fully understand the issues you are facing, and I do not wish to appear unsympathetic. At the same time I would be failing you or anyone else if I did not "say it as it is" and got you to put on your "rose tinted spectacles" so the world looks nicer. It might look nicer but it is still an illusion.

Many writers who write about "self-improvement" are always making people feel good by telling them what they want to hear so they tell more people. But telling people what they want to hear not only has zero value, it is damaging.

I am sure I would have many times more members of my newsletters if I was one of these people who made infinite promises while telling their readers what they want to hear, so they look like a nice person.

I can only be of service to people who recognise themselves and wish to evolve.

Many people write me nasty messages and leave my newsletters because i have hurt their comfortable vision of the world, but I am never upset about it because those people are not ready to be helped.

On the hair gel - just using implies there is something you don't like about your hair, but unless you Love every aspect of yourself - I do not mean in a narcissistic sort of way, I mean as an aspect of Unconditional Love, you canny expect to manifest perfection.

Even way you say you leave it alone completely, you are still checking at some level as well as thinking about it, and that can never work.

You just have to let it go and trust Source to manifest your Perfection in accordance with your Blueprint.

Here is an email, received this morning from a newsletter subscriber:

Hi Adrian,
I read your newsletter with much interest

Ive had 2 life changing experiences in the last 5 years.

Im very spiritually aware now, and closer to God.

In 2003 i had a serious car accident, that I walked away from, relatively unscaved. with a back injury that had healed, and causes me no problems.

Shortly after the accident, i became aware that my vision had improved and i became a better person. this was always inside me, but had been hidden from my conscious mind, due to what society and the media brainwashes us into believing.

I am truly a free spirit now, having attended a self awareness seminar in the UK recently.My life has improved significantly, in the last 6 weeks after the isa experience in bradford. people are shocked, and delighted to see the change in me.


And now this person wishes to share his Love and Joy with everyone - which is wonderful.

But you don't have to nearly kill yourself to do this - you always have a choice.

This person walked away from the wrecked car because it was actually his awakening -he was probably being resistant to it before - but you can never stop it completely.

I receive plenty of emails like that - I include this one because I just happened to receive it.

In Love and Light,

Adrian.

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« Reply #23 on: December 01, 2008, 03:47:18 »

So the car wreck is an experience? He couldn't stop it but he could walk away from it just fine?

What does this have to do with me experiencing my Physical body? You don't think I can change my body if I have absolute Faith? What is the blueprint you keep talking about? My subconscious mind IS the only blue print and all DNA, Hormones, enzymes and what ever is subject to the same laws as a car or money and so on. Its all the same Illusion and no matter what you say I have all the faith I need to make any change in my physical form. If you are saying I need to be materialistic in my thinking then I have enough Faith to defy even you "Adrian" the wisest.

Loving thyself unconditionally. I will always love myself but that doesn't mean I can't manifest how I choose. You should love your life unconditionally even when its sometimes going the wrong way. However that doesn't mean that I am not manifested as my ideal self. I am always going to love me because I am wise and my own person. I will have a brand new body that everyone will think is very different. I have it now and I love myself before and now. Just because you don't get what you want doesn't mean you don't love life. I love myself and my life and they are both perfect because I am not leaving God guessing. I am communicating my desires to the source always and feeling as if they are real. Realer then Illusions.

Adrian you have helped me and I have all that I need to manifest anything, unless you have another Law of Attraction secrete to teach me?
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« Reply #24 on: December 01, 2008, 15:40:16 »

Dear Wavepsychic,

I suggest you take a moment to read through this topic - which has been a very useful one - and contains all of your answers.

I never hold anything back. All my contributions are to the extent appropriate to the topic. I am sure you appreciate that books could be written about many of these subjects, but I restrict my contributions to the important points.

My suggestion is that you may be thinking too deeply and endeavouring to rationalise Principles that cannot be rationalised at a human, emotive level, they can only be experienced and assimilated in to Who we Are. The words do not exist in the human language to actually describe many of these States of Being - they are purely Experiential.

For example - you cannot make a conscious effort to Love yourself - you have to feel it and believe it beyond any question. If you do question whether you Love yourself by for example looking in the mirror and hating your hair - then you do not Love yourself plain and simple. And that goes for any aspect of your Being.

If you Unconditionally Love yourself notwithstanding any "imperfections" you think you have, then the imperfections can no longer exist.

You have to understand that there is nothing "imperfect" in Creation - not possible - so you need to arrive at that realisation.

As for the car wreck. This person is an awakening person who was not "getting the message", so a wake-up call was in order. Because it was a wake-up call he could never have been hurt, but the message did get through.

When he started to realise that he was an Expression of Perfection, he became more Perfect, and any physical aspect that was not in accordance with the Blueprint was realigned. This happens all the time.

But it is better to listen to and follow your inner guidance and Evolve accordingly, rather than waiting for unexpected wake-up call.

In Love and Light,

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« Reply #25 on: December 01, 2008, 18:21:32 »


Hello Wave,

If there is even one item you dislike about yourself, like your body, or your hair, and you like everything else, this communicates to the people around you. Unfortunately, in our society, people tend to react to others according to the self image a person has. They pick up very quickly on your dislike and self-rejection vibes (even if it is a partial self- rejection) and would tend not to like you. People who are totally self-accepting are generally liked by everybody even if they are not good looking.
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« Reply #26 on: December 01, 2008, 18:42:02 »

Dear Melody,


Hello Wave,

If there is even one item you dislike about yourself, like your body, or your hair, and you like everything else, this communicates to the people around you. Unfortunately, in our society, people tend to react to others according to the self image a person has. They pick up very quickly on your dislike and self-rejection vibes (even if it is a partial self- rejection) and would tend not to like you. People who are totally self-accepting are generally liked by everybody even if they are not good looking.

Yes that is absolutely true.

This is why some young people always seem to attract partners like "bees round a honey pot" while others are always "wall flowers".

I have actually studied this at a distance because I found it very interesting human behaviour.  There was no correlation between appearance, dress or even age in some cases.

It was actually down to "vibes" - the Energy Vibrations transmitted by the young people involved. This process is esoterically termed "Mental Induction".

If a person - boy or girl - makes no difference - believes they are "Gods gift to men or women"  - then the behaviour of the opposite gender precisely reflects that.

If on the other hand a person is "self-conscious" and they dislike an aspect of themselves that they believe the opposite gender will dislike, then so it will be, and they will feel rejected even though they are rejecting themselves in reality.

The Universe is always Perfect.

I can say this for sure from my research - physical appearance is never an issue.

Mind is Everything.  But then we already know that don't we.

The message is simple - if you want other people to Love you - then Love yourself.

But again - this is not "love" in a narcissistic sense - far from it - it is it is to Love the Perfection of which we are a Joyous Expression.

In Love and Light,

Adrian.

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« Reply #27 on: December 01, 2008, 19:08:32 »

Hello Adrian and Melody,

I think I know what you are saying now. Just love myself and my hair will grow back but at the same time I still need to visualize and imagine it. I know I already have it so I don't really want it right now.



Hello Wave,

If there is even one item you dislike about yourself, like your body, or your hair, and you like everything else, this communicates to the people around you. Unfortunately, in our society, people tend to react to others according to the self image a person has. They pick up very quickly on your dislike and self-rejection vibes (even if it is a partial self- rejection) and would tend not to like you. People who are totally self-accepting are generally liked by everybody even if they are not good looking.

Yes I know all about this and use it ALL the time. Their are many people that think I am very attractive. I just say to myself "I am the most attractive one here" or make up there minds for them. The down side is that this happens even when I done use it. I was telling Laura all about a so called friend that wants to "have" me. To be wanted conditionally instead of just being friends? Thats not what I want.

Who cares if others like me. I am abstinate after all. I need to love myself not just unconditionally but conditionally too. I don't think of myself as myself anymore. I love myself unconditionally and I CHOOSE to only see, feel and experience myself how I choose it to be. Just like someone would see there lives how they choose it to be.

Thank you Adrian for your help, I have renewed mental stamina. Thank you Melody for your returning I am now a raw vegan or just fast if I don't have anything raw to eat.
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« Reply #28 on: December 02, 2008, 09:25:03 »


Hello Wave,

I am glad you are liked by people. Not long ago you told us that a so-called friend of yours claimed that no one liked you. I am very happy you realized he told you a lie.
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« Reply #29 on: December 02, 2008, 10:21:46 »


Hello Wave,

I am glad you are liked by people. Not long ago you told us that a so-called friend of yours claimed that no one liked you. I am very happy you realized he told you a lie.


I think Louis friend told him the truth, mind you his truth, affirming something like that it can only come from a singular separated position (like the voice of a wounded child).

In retrospect these people are to be respected because they make you wonder as why they say that.
A lot of time they might be right and with insight we can examine what exactly made them think and say that.
We might find attitudes that we can modulate to become more loving and acceptable and in turn accepted and liked. Or we might find out that is all originating from missunderstanding and projection of expectations.

Or we might find that the other person is indeed in error because he looks at us through distorted vision (filtered through their ego), and again this is a reason to become more loving as in understanding where that person comes from. It very well may be that those persons feel they are unloved and nobody likes them - most of the time are childhood issues, it breaks your heart on how some children are raised in an unconscious family.

Ultimately is all good because is inducive of progression: as long as we are willing to open our hearts and see the truth from all angles. Who knows we might even be able to help that person become more loving.

Next time Louis try this:
- settle your wounded heart when you hear such things: i.e. nobody likes you,
- stop thinking is only you in the picture or that is all only about you
- make an effort to be in a place of love (think about something nice, a person you know loves you unconditionally for instance)
- try to feel compassion for the person that tells you vicious things because they only say those because that's all they know - that's how they were treated that's how they lived
- smile (smile from your heart with love!! and not with insolence or sarcasm.. if you can't do this is better to lower your head and leave)
- look them in the eye, and say: "Now why would you say that? I like you!! Smiley "

and from there on 2 things might happen:
1. you open the door to communication - sincere heartfelt that leads to deeper understanding of each-other
2. the person might just say something vicious and leave the scene - you have to understand that if this happens is only because the person can't deal with the shame ..give it time ... maintain your loving attitude no matter what - and your sweet voice Smiley

A word of caution though. Don't fall into the trap to attach yourself to that person, do your best to keep your emotions neutral.

With more work of this sort I can assure you that not only everybody will like you, you will be transformed in ways you can't possibly imagine right now.  Smiley 

(remember there was a time when I thought some people don't like me ...Wink )

love u!! - Laura
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May the light of love be always with you ~ Laura
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