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« Reply #165 on: March 23, 2009, 00:46:12 »

Julia & Baron

I get it now!

The Tao (or what ever you want to call it) loves everyone unconditionally & is detached. Whats more indifferent then the Tao?

If I am to be Unconditionally Loving then I can't let judgment block my love for others. I MUST love others even when they do things that I know is wrong. Isn't there a quote about how god loves the sinner?

The answer is that I don't have to do anything, just love people unconditionally no matter what they look like, how they act or the things they have done. I don't have to act estrogen high to show love, if I project love everyone will feel it...

Thank You both for helping me expand my awareness!

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« Reply #166 on: March 23, 2009, 09:41:32 »

Hi Dear Louis,

I love it!! smiley All you 'have' to do is be the Louis you are. When you live from Love is Louis, you never really lose yourself, how could you? We can forget where we put ourselves sometimes though as in where did I go?! wink

Love you Louis,

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« Reply #167 on: March 24, 2009, 00:29:21 »

Julia & Baron

I get it now!

The Tao (or what ever you want to call it) loves everyone unconditionally & is detached. Whats more indifferent then the Tao?

If I am to be Unconditionally Loving then I can't let judgment block my love for others. I MUST love others even when they do things that I know is wrong. Isn't there a quote about how god loves the sinner?

The answer is that I don't have to do anything, just love people unconditionally no matter what they look like, how they act or the things they have done. I don't have to act estrogen high to show love, if I project love everyone will feel it...

Thank You both for helping me expand my awareness!

Louis


Sounds good mate.  Tao's most difficult complexity is that it is overly simple.  People complicate life when really it is very simple indeed.
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« Reply #168 on: March 24, 2009, 01:01:38 »

Hello Julia & Baron

I am thankful to get to share with you two.

Very Spiritual Julia, I know myself when I know Love!

Baron it is very true, The Philosophy of the Tao is SO easy a child can grasp it. Yet adults over complicate it. Most people make there lives to complicated that its hard to cope with everything. I know! I was one of those people who over complicated everything!

In Peace & Love

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« Reply #169 on: July 26, 2009, 11:52:36 »

Just a little something to munch on for the weekend. Just passing it on. smiley

Blessings, Be Well and In Joy,

Julia


The 5 Great Lessons About the Way We Treat People

1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college, our professor

Gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student

And had breezed through the questions until I read

The last one:

'What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?'

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the

Cleaning woman several times. She was tall,

Dark-haired and in her 50's, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question

Blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if

The last question would count toward our quiz grade.

'Absolutely, ' said the professor. 'In your careers,

You will meet many people. All are significant. They

Deserve your attention and care, even if all you do

Is smile and say 'hello.'

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her

Name was Dorothy.

- Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

One night, at 11:30 pm., an older African American

Woman was standing on the side of an highway
Trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her car had

Broken down and she desperately needed a ride.

Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.

A young white man stopped to help her, generally

Unheard of in those conflict-filled 19 60's. The man

Took her to safety, helped her get assistance and

Put her into a taxicab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his

Address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a

Knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a

Giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A

Special note was attached.

It read:

'Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway

The other night. The rain drenched not only my

Clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.

Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying

Husband's' bedside just before he passed away... God

Bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving

Others.'

Sincerely,

Mrs Nat King Cole.

3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those Who serve.

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,

A 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and

Sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in

Front of him.

'How much is an ice cream sundae?' he asked.

'Fifty cents,' replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and

Studied the coins in it.

'Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?' he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the

Waitress was growing impatient.

'Thirty-five cents,' she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.
1.'I'll have the plain ice cream,' he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on

The table and walked away The boy finished the ice

Cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress

Came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the

Table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish,

Were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had

To have enough left to leave her a tip.

4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a

Roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if

Anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the

King's' wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by

And simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the

King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did

Anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of

Vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the

peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the

stone to the side of the road. After much pushing

and straining, he finally succeeded. After the

peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed

a purse lying in the road where the boulder had

been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note

from the King indicating that the gold was for the

person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The

peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.

5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a

hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who

was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only

chance of recovery appeared to be a blood

transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had

miraculously survived the same disease and had

developed the antibodies needed to combat the

illness. The doctor explained the situation to her

little brother, and asked the little boy if he would

be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a

deep breath and saying, 'Yes I'll do it if it will save

her.' As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed

next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing

the color returning to her cheek. Then his face

grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a

trembling voice, 'Will I start to die right away'.

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the

doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his

sister all of his blood in order to save her.


Most importantly.... 'Work like you

don't need the money, love like you've never been

hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching.'


Just whispering in your ear..........................................


Julia sis Thank You for a great opening to my Sun day~  grin
Love ya!
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« Reply #170 on: July 26, 2009, 13:44:48 »

Your welcome Jasmeen and I thank you for blessing mine! cool

In Love's Spirit,

Julia
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« Reply #171 on: October 18, 2009, 11:22:38 »

This is soooo BEAUTIFUL, that it takes my breath away... smiley

And makes my Love expand upon the world, and I feel immersed in IT!

I Love You! I AM LOVE ~

Leila  smiley

The Sacred Chamber of Love

http://spiritlibrary.com/quado/daily-portions/the-sacred-chamber-of-love

a message from  Quado  channeled by  Carrie Hart
Friday, 16 October, 2009  (posted 17 October, 2009)

Let us go now to a sacred place, a place deep and quiet.  Go now within the depths of your heart, to that place where peace reigns, where you are completely alone and completely yourself, that place deep and quiet, so quiet that it almost echoes with its own silence.

Go there now and feel the sweet wonder of your heart of love, the place within you where love flows, where there is nothing but love, that chamber of your heart that is untouched by anything other than love, the place that survives no matter what happens, that stays ever within love.  Let us go there now, to this sacred chamber of the heart.

And here, within this space, relax and feel how peaceful and safe it is.  You are held here within your own love, a space that you created for yourself and that is always here.  All it requires is that you take a deep breath, close your eyes, and let silence lead you.

And now, deeply within this space and place of love, become aware that you are not alone at all.  Become aware that this sacred chamber of love is full of spirit.  Yes they are here at all times, these angels, filling your heart with love and light.  They live in this sacred space and glow for you always here, no matter what is happening outside, no matter what your mind is saying, no matter if you are peaceful or troubled.  They are still here, shining for you, and sharing their love with you.

And now, from this place, expand outward.  Take this quiet place of love, this deep connection with the angels, and expand it outward from this tiny chamber of your heart until it fills your entire heart, your chest, your torso, your entire body and now expands out for several feet around you, so that you are a zone of love, an expanded state of love and grace, glowing for all to see and feel.

Let your own glow of love and connection touch all those whose lives touch yours.  Let your heart of love overflow into everything you say and do.  Let the peace of your wondrous being of love fully enter into your mind, so that you embrace being this person of sweet flowing love, of glowing light, of wonder and beauty.

This is who you are.  And even if you forget it for a time, this presence of your true being is here deep within your heart, in the sacred chamber of love.
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« Reply #172 on: February 01, 2010, 23:32:43 »

Hi Julia, I really enjoyed reading those five little stories. I had read all of them before, but still they made an impact on me when I read them again. Thanks for sharing.

Regarding the giving of knowledge, I think knowledge and advise should be given only to genuine seekers. These are not things that can be tossed away. If you give them away freely to those who haven't asked for it, you might find yourself in trouble.
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« Reply #173 on: February 15, 2010, 03:40:30 »

Ah Wave youve got it! And Goonie here's the secret to changing your body. And Wave your hair or whatever else you have spoken of as wanting to change.

"If I am to be Unconditionally Loving then I can't let judgment block my love for others. I MUST love others even when they do things that I know is wrong. Isn't there a quote about how god loves the sinner?

The answer is that I don't have to do anything, just love people unconditionally no matter what they look like, how they act or the things they have done. I don't have to act estrogen high to show love, if I project love everyone will feel it..."

Now here's the secret formula in step by step form.

Step 1 Really bite down the concept Wave has written. Live it, breathe it, be it.

Step 2 Practice it - Find people you usually say are "bad" or someone who has "harmed" you and go talk to them and Love them unconditonally.

Step 3 THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT STEP!! Take Wave's description and APPLY it to yourself. Love yourself, warts and all. UNCONDITIONALLY. No Conditions - Like when I look like Superman I will love myself. When I have hair I will love myself. etc

Step 4 After completely loving yourself, what are you filled with? LOVE. You become in the STATE of LOVE. You love all things because thats all you know - because thats what you are.

Pretty simple huh? Goonie are you there?

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« Reply #174 on: February 16, 2010, 11:30:00 »

So when you add "conditions" to the love of yourself you are limiting love. Which blocks the flow of creation thru you and the connection gets harder to feel and maintain.

Goonie, unconditional love for yourself means that you know without any doubt that you are perfect as you are. The form is just that. A form. Its not you. There are all kinds of shapes and sizes of bodies but is the essence of all different. Nope

Unconditional love for self is not only the hardest love to do but without it LOVE for anything else will have the same conditions that you put on your love for you.
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« Reply #175 on: February 16, 2010, 15:47:12 »

Hello to All,
You're coming out loud and clear there SethG!:). I am still in the process of learning/living unconditional love. I am still breaking down the barriers I've set up within myself  through the conditioning of beliefs as to what I thought to be unconditional love.

I think for myself the hardest part is admiting I really had no idea what this statement really meant, unconditional love. Other then hearing it from a birthing coach who assured me I would feel it when I set eyes on my infant for the first time. Even then although the love I felt for my children at birth could have moved mountains, I still never knew what it really was meant to mean. That always bothered me. Making me think I lacked some sort of soul or morals if you will.

I am now in this process of letting go of judgements and preconceived ideals of what *love* even means . For it seems to me that what one thinks of what love is, could be seen by another as controlling, manipulating, self serving in ways.

Once I master what love is which to me is respect and acceptance for all living things without even a thought of living it, without any clauses attached or impressions that are only selfserving ,will I then be able to say I can love unconditionally. 

I have to stop myself several times a day to remind myself to love unconditionally. I sometimes find myself secretly in my mind judging people and their life's path. Just because you don't verbally speak what's on your mind doesn't mean it cancels out that level of vibration. At least that is what I think.

I know I will love unconditionally some day. I believe when I break down my old beliefs towards humanity and let people enjoy their own freewill in which ever way they choose without judging them is when I will live my life with unconditional Love. If God can do it without effort/thought and I am a part of the whole God  surely I also pocess the same state of being.

Thanks for sharing SethG.

Love and Light,
Alicia
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« Reply #176 on: February 16, 2010, 20:27:05 »

Awesome Alicia! Great processing. This may or may not help.

This is a reply I wrote the other day to an email question. There was more before this but this is it, maybe lol


Someone reminded me this morning that LOVE is a STATE of BEING. Its not a feeling! A state of being hmmm

That calls for a re-vision.So if LOVE is a state of being then what are the other states of being or is there only ONE?

Lets see, we start off life how? Children are full of LOVE? hmmm Live in the NOW? Excited to explore LIFE? Full of LIFE. Judgment is not in their being.Sounds like a state of being to me.

Then what happens. Then we feed ourselves full of shit. Hate, anger, judgment, FEAR, Just a pile of bad feelings keeps getting fed. You are still LOVE but now love gets lost in the shit. And we get full of it. Then it spews out and we wallow in it. We feel bad. And this shit is heavy so we are always tired. Lifeless and depressed. Sound familiar?

And we then emit that energy because we lose LOVE. So we go looking for it and what happens. When we think men are pigs or sex is for control or whatever other shit then what happens. The people who are vibrating with similar shit get attracted. And then you can really slop around it together. Who wants to live with shit?

But of course there is different stages of the shit filling. Some never bite it down but most in our humanness go thru shit and then keep it hanging around. You're feeling love but there is just a few things wrong. There are some CONDITIONS cause Im not going to go thru that shit again.

Then when you recognize that you have been eating and spitting back our shit you say to yourself "Get that shit outta here! And then what replaces it?

LOVE - Cause thats all there is to fill it with when you quit taking on the shit.

Love takes over and washes you. Then you are so full of love you feel like you will burst. And every rock is beautiful and you LOVE it and every other soul is magnificent and you LOVE all. The reason you love all is because you have transmuted (to use the subject work even though I dunno what it means) to LOVE. Or of course as was said You RE-MEMBER that you are LOVE. And you think back to your childhood and how you felt. And you want to BE like a child. Because a child is in the STATE of LOVE.

You love all things unconditionally because how can their be conditions to love. If it is what I am.

Is it LOVE thats the catalyst? hmmmm Not if its a state of being. Well what is?

Maybe God? God energy. Pure, Pure LOVE. And we become LOVE we become more god-like. Are we God then? Well I don't think he'd mind if you called yourself that. Because we will all return or is it transmute back to God. And maybe that is the:

STATE of HOME

I added this after:

Oh and if we would observe NATURE from this perspective we may see that nature is LOVE. Unconditional. Everything in nature is in LOVE and from a harmony that can only exist with beings of uncondtional love. They easily gives their lives so that others can eat. They love all. Ever felt a dog's love? They are LOVE. They are in the STATE of BEING of LOVE.

So who needs to ascend again?

We are part of NATURE aren't we. Oh we forgot that! Right. You guys should check it out/ They're really cool to hang out with. Such great teachers!

So if we are NATURE and NATURE is in the state of LOVE.

The NATURAL STATE of BEING for all is LOVE

And when we all catch up to NATURE and RE-MEMBER with them. Can you imagine how awesome that will be.

No ..... IS

I promised you it was easy!

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« Reply #177 on: February 16, 2010, 21:48:28 »

In no specific order.
This will be meaningless for some.
Another may see precisely how it all dove tails in.
Unconditional Love was and still is, for me, is a steep learning curve.
Yes, a learning curve.
To 'live a fully awakened' Unconditional Love state.

Yes, many are the emotional triggers, that while observing or reacting to a given situation, an 'inner' voice pops in with 'what an ass', upon the seeing, hearing or doing of certain words and actions.

Another could state 'you are making judgements'.
Not a judgement being made, but an internal emotional condition awakened, that is sounding out the lack of inner harmony .
So be it

Difficult it is, to bring up the thought at that given moment, that behind the physical facade, is a perfect and pure high Self.

Questions of 'are you my lesson of the day, or was I your lesson to learn control.

Reaching a point where saying mentally from a point of Unconditional Love, 'The God in me, recognizes the God in you' is still a learning curve, to fully master.

Numerous are the 'buts'  still attached, that need correction.
The 'I love you but' just pops out.
Difficult to understand, certain events.
Unwillingness to understand, certain events.
What missed lesson triggered a lack of understanding.
Little by little though.
Will get it yet.
Be Well
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« Reply #178 on: February 17, 2010, 11:11:48 »

Hello To All,
Thank you Talker and SethG for sharing your thoughts even further:) I feel your passion, honesty and energy in every word you type. I've enjoyed and learned a few things from reading your discussions here on the forums.

Keep on sharing:) 

Alicia
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« Reply #179 on: February 17, 2010, 11:46:26 »

Indeed, wonderful expressions of Heartfelt genuine experiencing of this thing we call 'UnConditonal' Love.

What becomes clearer for this one on her way is that the more opportunties that arise to reveal where my blocks to this Love without conditions appear to be, it has been a process of removing whatever blocks or opposes this Ideal based on my willingness to let go of what I perceive to be Love.

And I have found that it comes from when I turn within to Spirit whose understanding is limitless and can give me the eyes and Heart to Love from this place and not so much by my attempting to do this with human limitations. Because being human experiencing, the forms can get in the way sometimes when I forget.

We are all in this together ~

Much Love in the Sharing,

InJoy this day All,

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